if someone didn't wanna dance with me, but i wanted to dance with them.. i probably wouldn't wanna dance with them anymore, i'd be mad.. so i guess my answer for this would be, you wouldn't dance with someone who wouldn't wanna dance with you
To get in their pants. Just because you dont want to dance with them dosent mean you dont want something else. Guys dont like going to chick flicks or going shopping a lot of the time but they do it anyway for some action.