can I just say....

Okay well, enough of you have expressed displeasure in regards to my reactions here and elsewhere, so I will offer an apology. Sorry.

I guess I can be overly sarcastic and even condescending (which is odd because I can't stand that trait in real life). I do hate to see women mistreated and it does tick me off, but I express that annoyance in inappropriate ways. I hope some women in my life can become stronger, and that feeling extends to women I don't even know, here on RT. Hypocritical of me according to this thread.

BD mentions China and the culture shock and sadly I did recently experience a very, dishonest person and big culture shock. But that doesn't excuse some of what I said.

Well, anyways, I wish you the best of luck in dealing with your guy. really I do. I just lost sight of your problem and nit picked certain small details.

 

i'm over it if you are. hey, where would we be if we didn't have other people to call us out on our stuff from time to time, eh?

 

lol.. i love you mama..

 

*wipes tear*

what a beautiful ending to a thread.....


this is what the forums are really about, thanks skip!

 

I don't see why it should be anyone's job to 'put people in their place on here'. Carl is highly educated and traveled, smart and makes good choices. i think he knows his place just fine.
Isn't this the type of stuff (the putting people down and makign sure they know their random thoughts place) the type of behavior that got this place closed?

 

Wow, so it really was over a bad day and a nap? It's not disrespectful that you take a nap when you have a baby at home. This is coming from someone who's husband doesn't tolerate any disrespect at all. Taking care of my physcial needs (and I don't have a baby) is never disrespectful though, even if he works all day and I'm at home. Saying 'fuck of you asshoole' is disrespectful, not takign a nap because you have a baby and can't sleep through the night because of crying and feeding. I am so pissed off reading this right now. i assumeed there was more to this story and you did something awful.
Would your SO consider counseling?

 

never too old to learn...

as far as getting the place closed, yes, that was an excuse used. and i didn't really see anyone "putting him down" over it; people just mentioned that in this case, he was being a dick.

ha, i'm exactly the same. excessively sarcastic and condescending myself, yet i also can't stand those traits in other people.

 

I am not saying this in an effort to attack anyone on here, especially since i have been guilty of it myself. But, I think a lot of people feel bad about themselves on here and see someone who is making better choices than them and feel the need to castrate them for it.
I , like Carl also thought the LOL's were out of place, but they're obviously covering up anxiety about the nap situation, which is incredibly fucked up (the nap situation).

 

lol no that's pretty much it.. like I said in an earlier post he's an ass when his sugar gets high and mixed with the day he had I kinda understand.. I understand enough to just let it go..

 

plus he sees he was in the wrong.. I don't think I'll have another day like yesterday.. we did talk alot.. and even if we do.. which we may, I'll still be here to work it out then too.. I really do love him and despite his sudden outbust yesterday he does treat me really good.. I think enough people on here has seen my posts about him.. we have a family now that I have to think about too.. if he was an abusive ass yea I'd get out as fast as I can but he not and that wasn't like him yesterday at all.. so hopefully our Vegas wedding this summer is still on and we'll live happily ever after.. haha a girl can dream.. can't she? lol

 

Whatever works for you in your relationship. I am not in it and there's always a lot more than meets the eye or is able to be expressed in words to others .

 

exactly...
nicely put..

 

k...we'll seeya later when the excuses run thin again.

 

are you trying to put me in my place? please. he was being a jerk and admitted it and apologized. let it go.

 

Sucks for you, brah.

 

It’s good to see we’re capable of policing ourselves


Hotwater

 

well, heck. post drama drama?

 

And I bet you just have the perfect relationship with 100% peace and agreements all the time. I'll take my "dysfunctional" relationship any day over that boring ladeedah.

 

just because people don't argue all the time doesn't mean their relationship is boring....

I know of a forum couple who has a fantastic marriage and they never argue, trust me, they are anything but boring.

and on the other hand there are people who will settle for "dysfunction" because they lack the confidence and courage to be real with themselves about their relationships....


I personally would love a happy medium but always find myself on the dysfunctional side...must say a lot about me huh??!

 

It just irks me that people have to make snide comments when someone posts about a fight or an argument with their significant other and then patches things up. It's fucked up, like people on here get a thrill out of seeing others' relationships split up. I get the same kind of replies every time I rant about Daniel, and it's really annoying that they can't just be satisfied that we worked through another kink. Not every relationship is sunshine and gumdrops and I feel like we have reached a happy medium, but that doesn't mean that we aren't going to piss each other off every now and then, we're two different people, we're not ever going to see eye to eye on everything. And I'm likely going to post when we really get into it because I can vent to you guys. But someone is always going to take that as an invitation to tell me how doomed we are. I totally feel for Green Goddess here, I've been in similar situations, and yeah, it might have been nice if I had fallen for Prince Charming, but I fell in love with a guy with bipolar disorder and a bad nicotine addiction. And I love him despite his flaws, and he loves me despite mine. I guess the crazy can only love the crazy...