Can guys and girls be friends?

That seems an overly rigid conclusion. If there happens to be some sexual attraction but he's determined not to give in to it how is he a fake friend by default... I agree it never helps but some guys are attracted to EVERY attractive woman, which doesn't mean they can't have a good friendship with some (unless he's properly sexual frustrated perhaps)

 

But only in YOUR experience.

 

Not rigid just a generalization. Of course there's always exceptions but in general if a guy is attracted to a girl he'll act like a friend but deep down inside he's just waiting for an opportunity.

For me finding someone attractive and being attracted to them is two different things. I know lots of attractive females that I'm not attracted too, hence we can be friends.

 

I had a good friend who was very obviously attracted to me when I was in a relationship. He was friends with both of us and he was most definitely not a fake friend.

 

So apparently most girls here have had male friends fall for them and hit on them.
Interesting.

 

Do you think it's true that you shouldn't invest in fwbs as friends rather than fuck buddies? That men can't be trusted, that they don't give a shit about you, that they're just using you, that they're dogs, that n**** ain't shit?

The men I fuck treat me very well and have always been willing to talk...