Call me insensitive, but....

None... other than, people should have listened to them and gotten them help instead of laughing at them, being mean to them when they really needed help. And since I threatened to kill myself too, and tried, I know for a fact that when I said it it wasn't for attention, but out of anger or just because I was so sick in my head I didn't know what the fuck I was saying, I said it like I'd have said hello goodbye... suicidal people, are, mentally ill. You can't blame someone for being ill, do you complain when someone has the flu because they cough too much?

 

What? Should I say, "OMG, you are so smart...I'm so stupid...I should just shut my mouth and let all these guys say what they want." : -/ Fat chance buddy. You had to repeat what I said...that's what I meant by that...at least if you're going to try and insult me, you should do it with something different than what I used with someone else... LOL you're so funny....because I wasn't even calling you anything.

And if you think I'm an idiot...that's OK, because you're entitled to your opinion...and this is the internet...like I care what you think of me LOL

 

Yeah, especially when they cough all over me.

 

but it's not their fault, they can't help it...and if they cough all over you... you can get away you don't have to stay in their face

 

But people are coughing EVERYWHERE...it's hard to get away from it...if they just stayed home and took care of themselves, concentrated on getting better...instead of being around people getting them sick everyone would be much happier.

 

Deja~Vu!!!

Did this exact conversation happen before in a thread long ago?

About people not coming to work sick?

 

Don't be so insensitive!

This is a very serious thread...

 

Well... you want an utopia... and that's impossible on Earth...

 

Well, then I guess everyone's just going to walk around and make everyone else miserable then, huh?

It drives me nuts to hear people's problems but they aren't willing to try to work out those problems themselves...well, then...stay home and stop making people's lives miserable having to listen to it.

 

Some people need to talk to work out their problems. May sound like complaining but they are really asking for help.

 

I understand your point, but you can't just tell people to shut up because you want them to, they're free... and sometimes they can't help themselves, sometimes they're not even aware of their problems, you know?

 

the only person that brings you down is yourself - thats if you let things bother you to the point of bringing you down.

 

Exactly. And Laety, the words in your sig pic...

Know them. Live them.

 

And I'm free to be annoyed with people who can't (or won't) work on themselves to make themselves healthy.

 

I find that suicidal fuckers and cutters are normally just attention whores who need to grow the fuck up and realize that it's not easy for anyone, there are people in the world who have it way worse who are still going to die with pride and dignity, and that they should shut the fuck up and either do the world a favor by doing what they threaten or by actually contributing to make the world a better place. Maybe it wouldn't suck so bad if there weren't so many fucking self-absorbed fuckers who apparently are under the impression that the world either does or should revolve around them. Assholes.

 

There are ppl who constantly bitch to get attention.

"Oh, my work is so hard! I am a martyr! Oh, I need a raise."

 

Thank you!

 

You're welcome. Really, I'm extremely into psychology, I've always been very in tune with understanding the way people's minds work and why they do what they do, and while there is such a thing as actual clinical depression caused by chemical imbalances, a majority of these people are whiny bratty kids who feel that's the only way they can get attention. If someone's serious about commiting suicide, they're not going to tell anyone, they're just going to do it. Because the people who tell someone want to be stopped, they want that attention, even if it is just a subconscious desire. People who are serious about it don't joke about it, they don't tell a bunch of strangers, they don't even tell their best friends, because they don't want any interference. They want their peace.

If you're threatening to kill yourself, whether you realize it or not, you are subconsciously screaming for attention, and it's okay to want attention or to need it, but scaring the shit out of people and hurting them (which is EXACTLY what you do to anyone who loves you, whether you realize it and even care or not) is NOT the way to handle things. Suicide may be a needed release for some, but it is the most selfish act you could ever commit. Seriously, think of who you're hurting. If that doesn't matter, you're scum and don't deserve that love anyway.

 

of course you are...

 

Not that easy. I'd personally rather someone I love to die than see them be unhappy for the rest of their lives... if dying is what they want... then why not let them die? If not you are the selfish one... know what I mean?