BYE! I'm GONE~My last thread

Whatever, its no fun when you run away.

 

gdmomchild....Couldn't Have Said It Any Better : ) Well, I Spoke My Mind In Your Other Thread, LittleOne~All I Can Say Here Is "Take What You Will And Leave The Rest" ---Take It Only For What It's Worth : ) Hope To See You Around Somethyme...If Not, Take It Easy, You'll Be Missed .......................................

 

you do have to watch what you post...some may find that funny coming from me as i am an open book, least that is what people may think....
there are many people on here who are not happy and see others in a vulnerable position and decide to pounce on them....don't take it personal....Don Miguel Ruiz writes a book called the Four Agreements and one of them, the first one actually is not to take anything personal. what you are dealing with are not personal attacks as to you or your situation but rather something has triggered in the responders pain and frustration and desire to lash out.....i have been guilty of it myself....but when trying to wake the other person up...
with you, i dont know you really, havent really followed your posts to see if you are one of those that sits in your self pity....i dont really care though given the situation in which you are referring....in that situation....there isnt a reason to be attacked....
again, though, many people on here and in life have little tolerance for moaning and groaning....mostly due to the fact that we each have it hard. however, it doesnt mean they have to be hardened to the point of attack or lose the light of empathy and sympathy....
dont worry about what others say.....just keep on truckin cause there is nothing left to do but smile...smile...smile and to leave the miserable in their misery

 

o.0 *passes the bowl to sylvan* 0.o
I think you should hit this.....twice

 

hahahahahaha...i know, i thought it was really funny. never seen that sort of reaction from him
*passes popcorn*
can i hit the bowl to please?

 

dont take it personally
be impeccable with your word
do your best
don't make assumptions

i love that book

 

littleone, i hope you swing by every once in a while, just to stop in. maybe the great spirit will find it's way back into many of the people who are sending great people like yourself away, we wont have as many foul comments, and you'll want to join the community again! but before you go!!- it's great folks like yourself who stick around here that keep this Hope alive here, in The Hip Forums =) you're bound to come across some opinions that are going to make you even sick, but it's you being here that will teach young and lost souls to think twice about their habitual actions, and their foulness =), and show them a lighter side to things. maybe this thread, which was initially "goodbye dear friend littleone", can become "healing for hipforumers that need it movement thread" =P.

to all who are here with love, god bless! to all that send great people like little one away, may you put aside your sour soul and find the love that is waiting to bless you too! unconditionally!

-ethan

 

Me neither Marie...rather freaked me out, so I thought I better pack a bowl...you can have it after he hits it....twice. *munches popcorn*

 

i just went (posting my last comment) and checked out the 'new posts' list, and i saw so many Mama threads =) that's the beauty of hip forums right there man, and there still is so so so much more, truly =) stickkk arounddddd. c'monnn

 

If you insist.

*takes two tokes and passes to marie*
Thank you, gdh.

 

*grinz* Yesh I do.

 

*still laughing too hard to hit it*

 

*cheers*

 

you post your shit in an open forum, if you really only expected support you are in the wrong place


if you want only positive shit go to a support group not a forum, a forum is a place with people with different opinions, a support group is where you get people telling you you are right no matter what...


This is not a support group

is it hipsupportgroup dot com?

I don't think so.....


sorry for the shit that happened to you, but read the writing on the wall and stop acting so hurt, not everyone is out to get you, stop just aknowledging (sp?) the detractors

if you can't deal with a few shots to your view of the world maybe you need to live in a world made of marshmallows or something....

 

Well you've got excellents points there. I hope that you won't leave because of such jerk but it's totally your choice.

Goodbye (if you leave but i hope you won't)

 

Hell yeah. I've been around for quite some time and every once in a while you will have threads like this, with people acting all hurt because they didn't get the respons they were looking for.. and ofcourse they (again) don't get all the sympathy in their 'goodbye' thread either.. hehe.. it's always the same. What I don't get.. if you want to tell your very personal story, fine. But if you don't want to deal with the replies, why not just close the thread? Especially this 'goodbye' thread.. personally I think it's nothing but an attention seeking thread, otherwise you either leave with some dignity OR you just make the announcement and close the thread. The people who like you will know how to find to through PM to beg you to stay anyway.. since that is probably what you're looking for when you make a thread like this. I wonder if she really stays away, 'cause usually people come back eventually

 

LittleOne,

I understand that you got wrapped-up with someone who had an obviously limited capacity to see and deal with his own emotions and would thereby resort to violence as a means "for resolution". And I understand that you are hurt and looking for support but, I believe, you should realize that the abuse that you encountered does not excude you from being a participant in life; as we all do, you have lessons to learn. I believe that along with insensitive and inaccurate responses to your thread there were quite a few sensitive and poigniant responses, and these may very well have the potential to catalyze learning within you. I wish you well and I hope that Rich learns important lessons that are obvoiusly waiting for him so that he can live well and help to make our world a better place.

Peace,

David

 

aww dont go, ignore what other people say, well try to. just dont take things on here to heart i've already learnt that lesson, its easier for people to bitch rather than to be nice

 

couldnt agree more with this post but isnt part of loving.....looking past that and giving someone attention....even if they are asking for it....

 

hm.. very true as well. But sometimes people wallow in selfpity and attentionseeking too long for their own good and need a kick in the butt to snap out of it. I don't know her, so I don't know if the harsh reaction where just, but sometimes being a good friend means having them cut the drama.

From what I read in that thread.. it looks like she got a lot of loving, caring responses, yet she chooses to focus on the negative ones. If she doesn't snap out of it and learns to ignore (or just laugh about) people like that, she'll have a tough time dealing with people in general I'm afraid.. and like someone else said, if you aren't tough enough to deal with responses like that, then maybe you shouldn't be spilling your personal stuff over the net?