Butter's Girl Issues...Again...The Sequel!!!

Can i get an AH MEN!!!???!

Although I am a yogi and practice Ahimsa, or Non Violence, Butters, I will be on your doorstep with Trotsky!

Bro you have nothing holding you back but yourself.

 

yeah, i realized my pacifism could interfere with this, but by gawd, AN ASS KICKING SHALL COMMENCE!


[or a severe tounge lashing, or maybe some really nasty looks, or..uhh..something.....ITS COMING!]

 

Who knows Butters personal number? Call him up!

The story MUST CONTINUE!
INQUIRING MINDS WANT TO KNOW!

 

Man, I'm really scared to be replying to this topic right now...but I guess I'll give it a shot anyway. I mean now have death threats by Yogi because I haven't in a little while. So....here you go. Last night was a good night. A bunch of us went to Steak and Shake last night, and for once she was able to come with us. We sat directly across from one another, and basically just talked to each other the entire time. We talked to others yea, but we both just seemed to only talk to one another. We got along extremely well, as we always seem to do. When the check came, I payed for everyone (since we only got shakes, so it wasn't too bad). She thought that was just an amazing thing to do. She kept saying how awesome I am and stuff. Then we got back to school, and she realized that she left her keys there. So, I convinced her to ride back there with me to go look. Once again, I got to hear how awesome I am for a good 2 minutes otr so. But, this was really the first time ever that it was just us two. Sure, the car ride wasn't too long, but still. Once again, we got along great, and were laughing and joking with one another. Then I got onto teh topic that she never seems to be availiable during the week, and she said how busy she was and all. But then she said, "Well, I'm done with class at around 2:00 on Friday, so why don't you give me a call then and we'll do something, okay?" Then, not too long after that, she was talking about how she has computer problems right now, and I said how I know some about computers. Then she was like, "Well then, come on over to my room sometime soon, and you can take a look at it and maybe you can see what's wrong." It doesn't sound like a big deal, but she has never really been this way at all before. So maybe things are going in the right direction??? Basically, she just seemed to really enjoy talking to me in the car, and at the resaurant. I'm thinking on Friday, I should really say something. I have no idea if she meant to hang out with just me, or the group...but I'll try for just me...I guess that's all I know of right now. Now it's Yogi's turn....haha.

 

""Well, I'm done with class at around 2:00 on Friday, so why don't you give me a call then and we'll do something, okay?""

HELLO! She's practically asking YOU out dude!

"Well then, come on over to my room sometime soon, and you can take a look at it and maybe you can see what's wrong.""

and that would be the SECOND time she's saying "oh butters, you big strong man you, come sweep me off my feet...."

yogi, we've got a road trip if butters doesn't get this taken care of!

stern glances await! boo!

 

Hahaha, oh man, you're going to be so upset with me when I say this...but how do I know that this...

Is implying just me. I mean, she could mean the whole group, right? Or does that really sound like she means just me, because we've never done anything outside of a group before...Okay, so if she does mean just me, then Trotsky and Yogi, what's the best thing to do? Like, go see a movie? Go get something to eat? Just watch a movie in my room? I don't even know if she means a date or not.....Okay, please don't hurt me!

 

She means just you. She said that you two could do something. She didn't say anything about going with a group or anything.

Look, call her like she asked you to, and ask her if she wants to do something with you. I don't know, a movie, a bite to eat, something. It sounds like she will yes, so just do it. You don't have to come right out and tell her that you like her than night, but you need to go out and have a good time with her. That's all! Just go out and have fun. See where that leads you.

Oh yeah, and take advantage of that chance to go to her room and fix her computer. That'll be good.

 

aww poo, there's no thumbs up thingy...so ill post this...

 

Butter's -- thats good, but you've been to this point before!!

I agree, go have a good time with her. But seriously man you have to just tell her you like her more then friends. or just tell her your not sure but you think you might like her a bit more than a friend. then ask her what she thinks about that.

If she says she's not into you more then friends, great, lets just be friends then. it doesn't have to make her feel uncomfortable.

Bro, don't be afraid of the feeling in your gut. YOu will get that feeling. its normal. And it will feel 20x better after you tell her you like her, no matter what her answer is.

Butters, you have a lot of emotionally charged energy inside of you, let it out man. Just tell the girl you think you might like her more then friends and ask her what she thinks. it wont end your friendship i promise.

 

and if you can't fix her comp. let us know whats goin on. As of now I'm a network admin and I wouldn't mind helping you figure it out if you can't. just let us know.

 

No. She means you.

Best thing to do: NOT A MOVIE. let me repeat. DO NOT GO TO A MOVIE AS FIRST DATE. and just in case, one more time, NOT A MOVIE.

you can't talk at a movie. you don't look at the person, you don't get to know them. DO......NOT.......MOVIE. clear on that part?

so, what should you do: Call her, and say: "Hey, i've been craving some [some restaurant] for a while, you want to go there after your classes get out on friday?"

and, just so you can have an emergency contingent [if she turns out to be a vegan or something..]:"Hey, cool. I've heard about [whatever stange thing she is] and i've always wanted to try a place like that. Do you have a favorite place for that?"

And, YES. she does mean "I get out at 2.00 on friday, and i desperatly want your sexy body to take me out on a date."
--But, just because you might not think so, all you're doing is making time to take her out to lunch, and get to know one another better, without others around. And if she does say, hey the group is doing this. so what? it's not any different from any other time.


BUT, you do have to call her ahead of time. Like right now. Girls like looking foward to things, almost as much as they do the actual event. It shows you were thinking about her ahead of time, and she's not just a last minute thing. And it makes sure she doesn't eat lunch before she gets out of class.


DO IT! go butters go!

 

Okay, just a little quick info. First off, thanks about the movie thing. Very good point there :sunglasse . Second, no worries about food, she isn't vegitarian or anything. Also, there's a basketball game on Saturday at our school, so wwhat if I aksed her after we did whatever if she wants to go to teh game with me? Is a game okay? I would think so...Thanks for the help though everyone, I really appreciate it. Just wish I knew what I was doing...hahaha./ I'm so nervous about tomorrow, oh my god I'm freaking!!! Haha

 

i would say a game is good, but this is coming from me [and im probobly not the best guy to be taking advide from]...but i mean, you can talk

 

A school basketball game is a great idea. It's cheap, and it has that benefit of you don't have to talk to eachother, as there is something to watch, but you can [and should!] take this chance to get to know one another.

"Just wish I knew what I was doing"
--Not a problem, that's why i'm here. To just TELL you what to do. Remember, it's better to ask her out to things well in advance. That part will score you points.

 

tell her you like her on friday and then ask her to the game for saturday!

THATS PERFECT!

Butters, I have a quote for you that i think applies. . .

"When I was 20, I worried about what other people thought about me. When I was 40, I didn't care what other people thought about me. When I was 60, I realized no one had been thinking about me."
-Author Unknown

In other words Butters, your nervousness is all in you. What you think she thinks is still only you thinking. You have to talk.

 

30 minutes until zero hour...oh my god I'm so nervous!!! Hahaha. Oh boy, hope I don't screw anything up! :&

 

You'll be fine friend.

When you tell her you like her, a whole world will be lifted off your shoulders.

 

results! we demand results!

and a shrubbery!

 

A Shrubbery We Will Have!

 

Well.....You guys are going to kill me....but...I didn't say anything. I know I know I know, I'm stupid and a coward, yes. We ended up just hanging out in my room. We just sat and talked for like 2 hours, then she went to go work out and do a little homework. But tonight, she said she would call me before she went to this frat party with her friends. She doesn't drink, and neither do I, so we'll probably be around each other the whole time. She seemed interested in talking to me, I mean we had a good time. I got to know her better, she got to know me better. But no, I didn't tell her how I feel. I don't know when is a good time. I mean, I'm afraid its too early because she doesn't know me well enough. Oh hell, I don't know. I'm just a love-struck guy in dire need of help. Any suggestions on what I can do tonight at the party? Thanks guys.