Butter's Girl Issues...Again...The Sequel!!!

12-10-2004, 05:53 PM Butters last update.

Winter break is a wonderful opportunity to hang out with her. Bro don't wait any more! You got to this point the last couple times and then the girls started thinking that you're not into them so they stopped hanging around! Come on! If you go through with this, i think you could make money selling the story as a soap opera!!

$$$$$$$

 

for the love of god, make your move man!! she wants you!
do it!!

 

slip her some roofies and tell her she blacked out.










im kidding for those of you who will end up bitching at me..

 

now that you're on winter break, how far away is she? is it within a reasonable driving distance? call her and wish her a happy new year (or xmas, if that's her style), and make plans to see her over the break if it's possible... or find out when she's coming back to school and get together in the few days before classes start.

 

hey butters - just kiss her man - that will tell you everything you need to know. even on the cheek first. if she likes that...

 

Hahahaha, well it seems everyone is dying to know what the hell I have been up to...wellllll......Winter Break offered no opportunites, being that she lives...oh...about 10 or so hours away from me, so, yea, not close enough haha. But, I sent her both a Christmas card and a birthday card, her b-day was the 26th. So I got back to school yesterday, and then today while walking to a meeting with my advisor she passed me and quickly stopped to give me a huge hug and thank you for the cards, and then to ask me how my break was and all that chit-chat. She also gave me a big hug the night before we left for break...so yea, all signs point to good news I think. And yes yes yes, I'm going to ask her out. Hopefully very soon, next time I see her and if she isn't busy. But I'm sure that she likes me, well, I hope she does. Don't worry Yogi, I'll ask her! I promise

 

Congratulations so tell us when you ask her... We are very nosey and need to know

 

Bro I have put my whole life on hold for this.

I have quit my job and I am now a slave to the couch and junk food.

Your hurting me butters, hurting me bad. Share your feelings with her soon -- or I may not make iT!!!!!!!!!!!!

=O

 

Okay.... (Oh man, Yogi's gonna kill me...) I have, yes, another problem. A snag if you will. Her course schedule at school here is crazy. She's working night and day on homework, and studying, and all that. Her major is incredably hard, and she has a scholarship to maintain. So here's the deal...she's too busy all the time now to ever even hang out with the rest of us, so I don't see her much at all, and when I do, its only for a short while and she has to leave to go study more. I don't understand the stuff she's doing, so I can't help her at all, so that isn't an option. What I'm saying is...knowing her...if I ask her out, she's going to say no because she will say she's too busy, and does't think she could give me enough of her time, and that it would just end up hurting me. I know how nice and self-less of a person she is, and I'm sure that's what she would say. My friend here thinks the same thing. But...I wouldn't be like that at all! If we went out, and she would need to study, I'm fine with it! I understand completely and would never get mad at all for her not spending enough time with me. I'm absolutely nuts about the girl, I mean seriously head over heels for her. All I want is just to know that we're together. When she has to work, thats totaly fine with me. My question is....well....I don't know what to do. How should I go about taking this. What steps should I take? I'm afraid to ask her out now...and I don't know what to do. Help me oh fellow hip forumers!!! (Yogi, please be nice to me...hahaha)

 

You've been waiting a good two months to tell her you like her? Ahahaha... come on. Just tell her. If she really likes you, she'll make time for you no matter how busy she is.

Explain to her what you just explained in the above post.

 

ya, i say just come clean with your feelings for her, either she says "no i don't like you" [i hope she doen't] or she says "ok, great" and everything takes off from there, or "like a mee to, but im qute busy, but ..." yadda yadda yadda, but at least she knows how you feel...

most people are understanding if you just tell them how you feel, and if it helps, taka few days and gther your thoughts down on paper..

 

Butters you have to tell her NOW!!

Expect her to say no. if she say's yes then you'll be that much happier and if she says no you wont be so disapointed.

she'll still be your friend dude.

 

Yeah, it sounds like you've been friends for a while and that your friendship is quite stable. You should do it.

 

Okay...I'll try guys. Hopefully I'll see her this weekend, if not, then I dunno. I guess should I just tell her everything I said in my last comment?

 

Yes.

 

Don't wait for "external" circumstances to offer prime "opportunity".

Butter's, you don't have to be a victim to circumstance any more.

Create your own opportunity. Call her right now and tell her right now.

You can tell her you wanted to talk in person but you just can't wait anymore cuz if you wait longer it will be too late. and you don't want that do you?

 

No, I don't...but I'm afriad to call her because she's always studying, and I don't want to bother her. But I want to do something with her...but I don't even know for sure if she even likes me...oh man, so confused... Don't worry, I've waited so long now its about to burst out of me. I'll tell her, I just need a good time, which is very hard to find with her.

 

--Gonna have to call bullshit on that. You're afraid to call, not for those reasons. Call her, ask her if she's home right now. If she is, say ok, and tell her you're gonna drop by in a bit. she'll ask why, but you just say "see ya in a bit!"
and handle your business.

Bullshit. Less of this whiny, 'oh i don't know' because you do know, she's wanting some butters.

A good time, would be the day you read this. Where in the midwest? Yogi and I will administer an ass kicking if you don't get on the ball.

 

if she is studying all the time just ring her up...maybe she would think of you as a welcom break in the rut of things...

 

FOR THE LOVE OF GOD JUST DO IT.

lol im not trying to be mean... but shit youve been friends with this girl forever and shes obviously into you.. so come on. make a move. you only live once!