Breakup: I asked for my condoms back.

the condoms sounds like the last thing i'd worry about in the situation.

of course his friends are gonna side with him. picture him telling his friends a possibly exaggerated story about you, what are they gonna say? "dude she was right."

NO, they are just gonna try to make him feel better, and most importantly change the topic from whining about his ex

i think it was fine that you asked for the condoms back
i can picture a chick saying "so you don't use them with someone else"
and i can picture myself thinking that's kinda fucked up cuz that's why you'd be taking them
but don't throw em away
that's stupid

yea it was less than $20, but they still aren't cheap
you never know when you might need one
just save em until you use em or they expire

and yea, maybe you shouldn't have called it a mistake
buy maybe you were just asking for him to reassure you that it wasn't
but maybe he was then unsure too
who knows
maybe it "wasn't meant to be"
someday you will be so much happier with someone else, that you'll think this was nothing, and wonder how you were ever even upset in the 1st place

i agree that him telling the bartender was fucked up

 

Yes, totally true. I do need to work on not wearing my heart on my sleeve so much. Thanks everyone for your responses... the feedback has definitely been interesting and has helped me not feel so crazy. I have dealt with him a little bit more (mostly when he drunk dials me) and I've realized that he actually is psychotic. So I think he just got such a thrill out of telling me I'm nuts because he is insecure about his own personality. I say, fuck 'em! lol