borderline personality disorder

OK, I'm somewhat of an "expert" on BPD since I have studied it so intensely over the last 4 years and have unprofessionally diagnosed my wife of 22 years as a sufferer. I am also heavily involved in a support group for victims.

Yes, I said victims.

If you suffer from Bpd, and you know it, and you truly want to heal it, then pursue DBT. It has the highest success rate than traditional therapists. You can easily spend 5+ years in therapy and get no assurance of healing. Same risk in DBT but less money.

I'm sorry... I know you did not decide to be BPD. I have tried and tried to be sorrowful for my wife's condition, but after all these years of not admitting she has a PD, I have up. Do something about it while you can, so you can have a good "rest of your life".

Buzz