body types...mainly for guys but girls please chime in too

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by water_dreamer, Nov 10, 2004.

  1. AutumnAuburn

    AutumnAuburn Senior Member

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    InsaneJester is right. MOST OF US (not ALL of us) are attracted to certain qualities in a mate. There is a very real, physiological reason for this. Sexual attraction has a purpose, that is to find a strong, healthy, good mate for us to have children with.

    Men are more attracted to hourglass figures. No, not ALL men, but MOST...
    And women are more attracted to V shaped torsos. Again, not ALL women, but MOST.
    (Among other things)

    Here are a couple of links to some educational studies done on this subject. This isn't just one guy's crazy theory... This is real science. The biology of attraction. There have even been studies done about the biology of flirting and how we need certain cues, in order to become interested. It's very cool stuff. Very interesting and I highly recommend everyone looking into...

    http://www.umkc.edu/sites/hsw/other/evolution.html
    http://www.college.emory.edu/hybridvigor/issue1/attraction.htm

    Though, I would like to see a study done on why certain people are attracted to the less fertile types. Perhaps there is something in their own physiological makeup that would make them be drawn to those less genetically desireable... I'm sure it's out there, I just haven't looked for it...
     
  2. HippyChick420

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    I am on the same damn page! No one ever understands me! But damn, tall scrawny guys are hott! lmao

    ~Megan
     
  3. 8footsativa_chik

    8footsativa_chik Waka Chang-Chang

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    Hmmm....things i usually look for in a guy:
    Long dark eyelashes
    Amazing bright eyes
    quite a defined jawbone
    crazy hair
    Mysteriousness
    Difference
    I also have this thing for big strong fore arms and broad shoulders and big hands LOL.
    tallness (as im 5"7 and i hate my height)
    Bigger than me but not too big.
    A sense of humor

    yer it seems that all i'd like about a guy is his looks, a ripped body, cock size and all that jazz, because hey, im only human. But he's gota have a great sense of humour and a nice, kind personality also, otherwise he's not really worth pursuing. Without the personality, this would only make him worthy of a one night fuck (man that sounds so shallow, meh, LOL) :p.

    I like the fact that a guys ego isn't a huge part of his life, its kool when they take care of themselves and that working out and stuff makes them feel good about themselves but cant we all just be humble about it?.
    I love it when a guy is really humble about his looks.
    Blah Blah Blah (i just went off topic :rolleyes: ).

    Take care.
     
  4. fridayiminlove

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    I hate muscles on guys, yuck. A tiny bit on their arms or abs is ok as long as they are also super skinny. I like skinny pale guys with longish dark hair...yup..I like defined features too and yeah the V-shaped torso thing is very attractive. Oh nice skin and teeth are a MUST. Definetely will not date a guy with bad acne. Um I also like hands.

    Personally for my own body, I always think skinny is best. Kinda like how models' always look good in their clothes/lingerie/whatever? I just think clothes in general look better on thin women. ::shrugs::
     
  5. innocentpoison333

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    YES i agree with almost everything you said! I hate muscles, and i love skinny guys. And pale guys are sexy, with really dark hair, and dark, brown, blue, or green eyes. I also like guys hands (soft long fingers) and necks. I like a defined jaw lines and broad shoulders, (as long as the guy is skinny). I think women with a generaly healthy body look nice. A women's figure is so beautiful so I tend to think larger hips and breasts on women look sexy on women, but at the same time skinny women and small breasts, look pretty and innocent somehow.
     
  6. Rapturous Love

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    haha Amelia and I lol "so tiny with big boobs" hahahh
     
  7. FreeBird1969

    FreeBird1969 Fleas on their paws.

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    Hair is really all that matters when it comes to looks.

    Give me a head with hair
    Long beautiful hair
    Shinin' gleamin' steamin' flaxen waxen. :D

    Eyes aren't a big deal, as they are with a lot of girls, but I mean it is kind of a turn off if a guy has beady black little eyes.
     
  8. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    I couldn't agree with you more on that.
     
  9. RainbowCrow

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    What I like in a guy:
    Dark, kind of long hair
    Deep, romantic eyes,
    Broad shoulders,
    A solid,thick body,
    Penis size isn't important.
    Sensitivity is dead sexy.
    Emotional guys rock.
    Sense of humor is important,
    Sexually, he has to be good with his hands.

    I know, I know..I'm picky.
     
  10. Lunatic_Fireball

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    I love long hair and nice eyes on a girl...it's great. I also like the girl to have a tummy and not be a size -1. I don't really look at a chest much..but a nice butt isn't a bad thing..;-). It's also nice when a girl is conservative in public..but isn't afraid to let you see their form in private.
     
  11. ACQD139F83J

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    about my level of sexual maturity (if less they have to be older or I feel bad. I can also go for significantly older women but only very occasionally), nice eyes, tall, skinny, male (me being gay(mostly)), dark brown hair, slightly muscled maybe - that's in order of priority.

    Mind you, I'm pretty much describing a guy I am rather infatuated with at the moment, but whatever.
     
  12. odon

    odon Slightly Popular

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  13. joo kyle

    joo kyle thisandthat

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    really skinny girls. Like Taylor Momsen
     
  14. secret_agent_amanda

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    I like chubby guys.
     
  15. Magical Mystery Girl

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    I'm a fan of someone who looks like they take care of themself, but not in excess... meaning I'm not a fan of muscles... but on the other hand I'm not a fan of chubbiness (especially gutts) or excessive skinniness. In between and not gone over board is just right. :)
     
  16. I am not a Muslim.

    I am not a Muslim. Member

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    My favorite body type is the large rear-end type lol. I like short women with big booties lol.
     
  17. sg girl

    sg girl Member

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    thick chicks run this shit.....haha lmao...



    i heard dat sumwhere...lol



    n i love chubby guys.....they r sooo dam cute...
     
  18. Defcon1Adm1n

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    I dont like thin girls, not attractive at all, but overweight girls are just as bad. A small belly is ok, and can be very attractive on the right body. Boobs + ass need to be proportionate to the rest of the body. I guess a well maintained body is what I like. Some hips are good too. This is hard to describe. let me see you in the flesh, then I'll make up my mind.
     
  19. atla23

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    i think id have to go with petite.
     
  20. Terryboy

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    Milla Jovovich. Tilda Swinton. Helena Bonham Carter. Rose McGowan. Kate Moss. Skinny, pale, small breasts, wild hair, shaved pussy, open mind. I really like redheads, too...
     

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