I like sex I feel closer and more intimate, also I'm ultra sensitive and kinda quick so blowjobs arn't fun for me cause I am done too fast, unless she teases me of course...
I haven't been with a girl that's rly good at giving bj's So am gonna go with sex. The thing about blow jobs is, they're not challenging. You just sit there and let the girl do her thing.. that bores me after a while. When you're having sex, you have to put a lil more effort into cuming... and I love challenges
See I don't like that at all, that's what kills sex for me. I don't like to be moving all around, to me sexual pleasure should be relaxing, not a lot of work. If I want a good workout I'm going to spar at my dojang and kick some ass, or go to the gym, I'm not going to have sex. That should be easy. The same reason I can't get off standing up in the shower, no way, I have to be sitting down to get off or relaxed, otherwise it doesn't work at all. I find it very difficult to get off at all with sex, I guess I make a good partner that way, I can last forever, haha. But it's just not that great. It's... merely ok. I'm not even sure it's much better than jerking off to great porn to be honest, it's just so... meh.
my boyfriend is very much into blowjobs, its like a fetish or something...but i think he likes the actuall sex way better. i like doing blowjobs on him, but the strange thing is i dont like having them on me.
To me oral respect is the ultimate sexual act of love and devotion since the other person is the only one receiving physical pleasure. I'd prefer just trading off on oral than sex, to be completely honest. I get the feeling that the girls I'm with get way more pleasure out of sex than I do. With a blowjob, I really feel loved and respected. It's like I'm a king! Of course, it's important to reciprocate, so as to properly coronate her as my queen. To sum this up succinctly, trading oral leaves both of us more fulfilled and gratified than sex, where I feel like I'm getting the short end of the stick. To be honest, I get harder when going down on a girl then when fucking her.
An old friend from my OLD crowd used to refer to oral sex (whether man or woman doing it) as "body worship". Which I found myself agreeing with. Having simultaneous orgasims while 69-ing = amazing earthquake of bliss. :whistling That said, nothing more wonderful than feeling my lover inside. But, it's all good, right?
but what if you were one of those guys that never go down on their girl and the only thing the girl likes is sex. just saying. i feel kind of empty handed when i give my bf a bj and i get nothing out of it. i mean. i like giving him pleasure but i'm also selfish and would like something in return
I totally agree! I spoil my bf like that all the time because i also see it as a form of devotion, i could spend hours just playing with him and never getting anything in return. I think it's much more fun and pleasurable to give than to take, especially when the person you're giving to is worth it. Some people deserve to be worshipped XD
well, the only way i would take a bj over sex is if i had to use a condom. I cant feel shit with a rubber, but i would say that normal unprotected sex feels way better than a bj. Plus it's more intimate.
More intimate? Both acts can be very intimate, it depends on who is delivering them. Maybe a problem is that many people here haven't been with a partner who's good at giving a bj, and I haven't been with girls who are good at sex. lindsey, that really sucks. Your guy needs to learn how to do it for you and fast. He's probably self conscious about whether he can do it well. I'd try talking to him about it soon because this is the thing that can unravel a relationship sometime down the road.
Just putting this out there. He might not be comfortable telling you why he doesn't like it or why he doesn't do it all together. I had a girlfriend for 2 years and I never ate her out. She didn't shave at all really and she didn't taste good when I did try. Now I'm with a girl that I crave all the time. She shaves fully and she tastes amazing. I can stay down there for hours.
I think it's funny anyone could say sex feels better than head, it's just so clearly worse to me it's not even close. I mean come on, which has more versatility and ability, a hole in a girl (a vagina) or a mouth with a tongue? Let's be honest here. Plus sex isn't a very hot idea, it's just so... animilastic, boring, etc. It's not fun to watch, it's more fun to do, but overall pretty... blah. Whereas watching a chick give head is super hot, and getting it while watching it is even better, haha.
A blowjob feels soooo gooood! Sex is good to but some days I prefer to let her work her magic. Just the otherday I met this girl from online & we had talked about sex but when she sucked my dick it just blew my mind and I was done...lol
it depends i rather fuck a bitch but with out a condom but if ur waring the condom then id rather get a bj man
Hi everyone. Ok people are going to think I'm probably kinda odd, but well I am, lol. I'm 36 years old and a virgin. I up until recently had not even been in a relationship with a woman. Well, thats all changed. I met someone online and we met half way for 4 days in Salt Lake City. We totally love each other and are planning on getting married. Ok, so we did everything short of intercourse, so I'm still technically a virgin. I loved oral sex, both giving and recieving. She is coming to see me where I live next week for 10 days and we're going to make love this time. So I'm eager to see which I will end up liking better.
man, i prefer getting a bj. A girls mouth can do way more things, like she can adjust how hard she sucks me, how fast she sucks me, how much spit she uses on me and that good stuff. plus i dont do jack other than watch her suck me off and watch myself cum without any physical effort. but eh, i dont like eating pussy, damn tongue just hurts and get tired. say what you will, im a lazy sob. sex, meh. i prefer watching a girl getting fucked by someone and just jerking off rather than fucking her myself.
Interesting, maybe the answer for me would be to become really bad at giving head and then maybe I'd get some
i luv getting fucked but i totally feel IN MY PLACE when i'm on my knee's with a dick in my mouth~Mmmmm
