Blowjob from a guy

There is a website for hooking up that I go to. Everything about it is free. Just chat up a friend and hook up with him. Real names or your location doesn't have to be given. Just go and experiement and see if you like it.

 

First time was hard for me. We agreed to suck each other. I sucked him first since I was afraid I'd chicken out.
Was different but exciting.
Found an older guy around my age locally by accident.
We get together when we can. Mostly at his house. Talk like old friends. Head to the bedroom. Take care of each other. Talk some more and just go about life.

 

Getting past the unease begins with being with a guy who understands that you're wanting to do something that is pretty damned scary to a lot of men. It's not easy to set aside all that stuff you learned and/or heard about homosexual men and how forbidden the sex is; for some, it's too easy to believe the stereotypes, misconceptions, and misinformation that surrounds men having sex with each other. I've had this conversation with a lot of guys and one of the first things I point out to them is that the only difference between being blown by me (or some other guy) and a woman is... I'm not a woman. If you think about who's doing it, you might not be able to go through with it - but if you think about the act itself, that can help deal with the trepidation.

It's just a blowjob. In the moment when I have their cock in hand and I'm about to blow them - and this is about to happen because I have answered all of their questions to the best of my ability and they have my word of honor that I'm not going to betray their trust and that all they have to do is say, "Stop!" and I will stop immediately - and there is no shame in stopping - I've said that if they think it'll help, close your eyes and don't watch what I'm doing unless you feel comfortable enough to. Some guys close their eyes, most guys, well, to them, it's like that car accident you don't want to see but can't stop looking at because it's hard to believe that there's a guy sucking their cock.

But to get to this point - and to the point where what I'm doing is going to make you cum - you have some decisions to make that I cannot and will not make for you and beginning with... do you really want to do this? If you're talking to me, you have to decide (1) if I'm telling you the truth about guys blowing each other, (2) if you can really trust me not to fuck shit up for you and (3) it's going to depend on your ability to forget all that shit you think you know about this so you can find out a truth that I and millions of other men have learned: It's just a blowjob.

 

I remember answering an ad posted by a married guy on Craigs List looking for his first male blowjob. I arrived at his home (wife was at work) and we proceeded to the living room as he removed his pants and said, "I'm not really sure this is a good idea, but I won't know until I try". I told him to just lean back and close your eyes and let me do my thing. His cock was just starting to harden up in my mouth when he asked me to stop after about two minutes. He apologized and said this is not going to work. I respectfully stood up and said that it was OK, as he was pulling his pants up. I assured him I would never tell a soul and wished him a good day as I left.

 

Some men - and, I think, especially married men - can't get past this moment. I've had guys stop me and I've kept my word and not only stopped but didn't try to convince them to let me finish. Single guys, well, they can be weird about it, but I've rarely had a single guy stop me once I started to suck him and the ones who did said that the whole thing was too gay for them.

And if you're considering getting a blowjob from a guy, you want the guy who understands this; one of the questions I'd ask is, "Will you tell me about your first time and how you handled it?" If the guy brushes off the question in any way, he's not the one you want sucking your dick.

 

Another piece of advice: Don't overthink it. It's way too easy to get inside your own head and start playing the "what if" game with yourself. Most guys who want to experience this wind up talking themselves out of it by fretting over things both real and imagined - and mostly imagined - and way before they get to the part where they start looking for a guy who may be willing to accommodate them. Always think first and act if you must or if you can - but don't overthink this. Do your best to ensure that no one and nothing stops you from being able to experience this.

I know it's all easier said than done and coming from someone who has decades of experiences sucking guys off but I've done it enough time to know what scares the shit out of a guy and what it will take to allay his fears and give him an experience that I hope he's going to enjoy - and without any guilt or regret.

 

I'm thinking that if I'm blowing you and you're watching porn on your phone, we're going to have a problem because, clearly, you're not paying attention to what I'm doing and you need porn to motivate you and I will be seriously pissed... and you do not want to see me seriously pissed. Yeah, too many guys still worrying about being gay... in 2023 when it's rather clear that you don't have to be gay to be a cocksucker or to get a blowjob from a guy. I'm older and as bald as a cue ball... and I am still one hell of a cocksucker and I still love being sucked off, too so to me, age/appearance doesn't mean a whole lot... except to those who still think it's important.

 

It's what they're doing , not who they are, that's important.

 

True enough but a lot of guys can't get past who's sucking their dick...

 

Yeah, and I sure do know what you mean and how it makes you feel. You get caught up between not liking being used like that... but satisfying your need to suck dick and, yeah, vacuum out his cum. Yes, I, too, grew up doing this because it was all about it being mutually satisfying and learning how to deal with the ugly feelings when it's not even mutual or satisfying... but c'est la vie; it just makes you be pickier about sucking dick and that first time a guy uses you like that is usually the last time a guy will do that... except for the really submissive cocksuckers who want to be used as a tool for his satisfaction.

Which is the reality of sucking dick; I know I do it because I love the fuck out of doing it but I'm a tool for his satisfaction and a situation that is... minimized when the cocksucking is mutual and made to be satisfying for both people. I think it comes down to which thing is the most important to you when sucking dick: Your great love of doing it or worry about being used as a means to an end? I've had guys make me wish I had never sucked them but I had to be honest with myself: Before they made me wish I had said no, was I having fun sucking him? And the answer was always, "Yes... before he fucked it up for both of us."

 

I was so excited about doing something as taboo as getting a bj from a guy, I was hard from the moment I lowered my pant to when I got off a few minutes later. After a brief rest he coaxed a second load out of me. That had never happened before.

 

It's quite the rush, isn't it?

 

And I still get just as excited now as I did then.

 

I'd been able to do this for several different guys while providing them their first male blowjob. Hearing them telling me "WOW, that's never happened", or "Damn, that was fantastic" was always a confidence booster for me as they would then say, "How often are you available"?

 

There's nothing like the look on their face when they're about to cum - and especially when they think they're not going to cum. Then they do and it's ass-kicking powerful for them and, as an aside, I've always wondered why a guy cums more when he gets his first male blowjob. What they say after they come down off the high of cumming just makes me smile and I think the highest compliment I can be paid is to be told that I suck dick better than some women do.

 

I think I cum more because it's something out of the ordinary. I probably cum as much the first time or two with a different woman.

 

Unti you catch her giving her brother a blowjob and she says a blowjob is a blowjob, right?

 

Well, it's the truth, isn't it? The act is what it's always been and has never been "person-specific."