I have never experienced either one. I have given a lot of thought lately to sucking a man’s cock. As for my wife she as told me about other men before I met her.
Mutual oral sex with another man has always been at the top of my list since I first took a man's cock into my mouth 25 years ago.
I agree, I've fucked a number of women while also sucking their husband's cock. It's only natural for the guys to enjoy each other while enjoying her as well.
I had a good friend that was willing to have a 3some with my wife and I. She was willing too. When we did I discovered that I enjoyed looking at his cock. I am a big voyeur. I always wondered what it would be like, but had never touched another cock. I was hesitant but the ice was broke when he asked me if I needed some lube and then proceeded to rub some on my cock and balls. That was very new and surprising ! I got so turned on that I returned the favor, and even went so far as to join my wife while she was sucking his cock. I took his cock in my mouth, and sucked it good. We proceeded to have great sex the 3 of us in all kinds of configurations. I still very much enjoy sex with my wife, but I also now fantasize about cocks. I am now curious about having a "jerk off buddy" . The thought of that really turns me on.
With the help of your wife the ice has been broken, and you've gone somewhere you never thought would happen and found it to be sexually enjoyable. I suggest you tell your wife what you are feeling since she was present and didn't seem to mind that you indulged with another man. Disguss it with her, she deserves that much.
M My wife as only told me about one guy she had between marriages. Her first husband died from cancer. Long story if you got the time
She texted with a guy on and off for a few months. He was in Denver and she was in PA. He invited her to fly and he bought the plane ticket. She booked a motel for herself and invited him over after my conversation and some fore play they ended up in bed. She did everything she could think of including a blowjob but he could not get it hard. He was so embarrassed he got dressed and said he would be back tomorrow. Next same thing he could get it hard no matter what they tried so she went back to PA