Biggest turnoffs, physically, about women.

thank you sexbanshee. thank you!
food is just like any other substance abuse! it really is. too much of anything is a bad thing...

 

you are welcome girl,,,,


it is at times my downfall...i eat too much when I am sad,,,i dont do booze or drugs....

the only thing, for me that isnt tooo bad about it, is its not mind altering..so at least I can raise my son with a clear head...

is that you in the pic.....very cute........love the hat!!

 

yes, it is me! thanks lady!

 

ha ha ha... Not talkin about drugs, not talking about you eating meat, not talking about ummm past relationships ha ha, but nice mis-direction of the subject. LAZY, FAT, BITCHY (I can name one bitchy woman right now), Qualitys (as the thread is asking) are the qualitys that are most repulsive to me, I would never date or have dated anyone who shows these qualities as they are a person who is either unpleasant or unresponsible.. Oh ya and one more time thyroid problem my ass, its pure lazyness and or self management. Thruth hurts little missy but disgusting obesity is somethign we can control.. Except except except those few few few select few who really do have a problem. Its funny how you only attack me as I've went a little further than just posting a few words stating fat people is a turnoff but several other before me have posted that. Why me... BITCH ha ha ha ha.... your turn honey...

 

You're very intolerant for a Rainbow type person. Aren't you supposed to be accepting of all with a belly button? Or is that when you're at the gatherings only?

 

being unhygenic is numero uno followed by being fat. By fat, I mean unhealthy and inactive, not simply that there body is not meant to be stick thin. I think both of these have to do with the fact it is important that a girl takes care of herself and is healthy.

 

Physical turnoffs: bad breath, unpleasant smell especially in the areas I like to kiss and stroke - in other words, anywhere and everywhere.

 

ha ha, yes I do accept all people as my friends, but when talking about friends do you use the words turn on's and turn off's? No, they are your friends not intamite other or potential intamate other. So on that note, the person I chose, and when choosing, the qualitys of Fat, Lazy, and Bitchy were not even considered, why would I approach someone with long term hopes with those qualitys if its a turn off for me? And yes I am sick of everyone making up excuses for fat people, it all boils down to that persons lack of self control over their body, sure everyone wants to look good but no one wants to do the work to get there (or just quit eating high calorie foods). And god forbid, someone finds a more self-controled more ambitious person much more sexy and for lack of better words more of a "turn on"

 

exactly! thanks tarabelle.

and i know what this thread is about. it's just a bit ridiculous that you went ON and ON and ON! i'm done fighting. you are hard headed and close minded. no changing that for now.

 

ha ha ha....

 

Ugly feet and long toenails.

 

cruel people who judge others by their looks (this makes me cringe)...I was married to an overweight guy and oh my he was about the most sensual of men i ever met...his lovemaking skills were amazing!

fragile and over inflated egos

insensitivity

no lack of rhythm, either in bed or with music

abusive people who arent articulate enough to put their point across eloquently, so therefore show their immaturity or lack of skills by resorting to verbal attack...uugghhh....


and the list goes on....

ooops sorry the above applies in the main to men I have met!

 

I dated a very overweight man as well when I was young and, well, hot. We had an immediate emotional connection. He was an amazing lover as well. Just amazing.

 

Aaahhh Tara

Thank God for women with good and understanding souls hey?

Hopefully maturity brings a certain understanding.....

 

You girls just made me feel good about being overweight. Thanks.

 

You are welcome Musikero

Just be sure to ignore the cold and insensitive ones (sometimes they are just young and inexperienced)....true love judges not...!!!

 

yay, now that you feel good you'll be less inclined to do somethign about it. And the circle of fatness continues. You shouldnt feel good about being overweight, what is there to feel good about. You know you'd more happy if you could look in the mirror and liked what you saw more. You'd love to know that you are at a less risk of heart attack if you were not over weight right?. I just dont get it, the knowledge is at our finger tips yet people just are either brainwashed from everyone telling them its ok your fine just the way you are. Which is nothing more than a nice jesture not to hurt your feelings about the truth at that time. But truth be told you know and I know you wish you were not fat but thats as far as most people get, a wish. To actually count calorie intake and figure out what your body needs to run on and than subtract from that so your body has to burn its own energy reserves is just way way more difficult than opening a bag a cheese doodles and flipping on the tv... I'm not mad, I'm not being mean (ok I apologize for the name calling) even though it comes across that way because ths is a touchy and emotional subject to most people because they are sad about they way they look. Heres a link I'll try to take action rather than just talk about it. http://www.caloriecontrol.org/calcalcs.html type in your weight height and age it'll spit a number out. Thats how many calories you need in one day to keep your present weight, eat more than that you gain weight, eat less you lose weight its simple. It all comes down to calories. Not fat or protine or carbs, each of those including alcohol will be turned into fat and stored within the body if you eat more than your body burns in one day. Its just that foods with more fat or sugars have more calories so you get a smaller food package with more calories. I hope a few of you who feel insecure about your weight click on the link and try to take action, read more about it. What would make you happier someone saying "its ok your a fat" or "Wow! you look good, have you been losing weight", which would be a real compliment, not just something to make you feel good at the moment because they feel sorry for you, or feel its their duty to make you feel happy even though we all know being over weight is not a good thing.


Mike...

 

that calculator is for women, on the left if your male click weight maintence for men. Hope this helps some of you... Becuase you dont look good overweight and a heart attack doesnt sound like fun....


Mike...

 

Hey Musikero,,,,,

Arent you about the same weight as Gyva....you guys look to be similar build....?

Hmmmm.....

 

I think you look fine. This is not what I'm talking about when I said an excessively overweight guy - hahahaha.

I have to say very thin guys look unhealthy to me. But, each to his own, I always say. Or if you prefer, that's what makes horse races!