Bi men and aging

Many years ago, I saw a flick in a vid booth in the city, "White Man's Cock, Black Man's Ass".

This was indeed a 180 degree turnaround from the usual black top/white bottom stuff.

It WAS a HOT flick, and it still stands out in my mind today, because it seemed so "out of the norm" at that time.

Online, yes, I HAVE seen a number of pics and vids of white guys topping black guys, but, by and large, most internet stuff is black top/white bottom.

Hey, whatever floats your boat.......................

 

Personally speaking, I like m/m vids where WHITE guys and BLACK guys take turns topping one another.

After a while, the same old "cliche" DOES get a bit wearisome...................BUT, given the saturation coverage on the 'net and in vids of black tops/white bottoms, it is not surprising that there is such a huge following..............

 

At my age, males are easier, hornier, and they suck cock like no woman I know.

 

I have heard a lot about guys saying that men give better head than any woman.

Perhaps, being men themselves, the male "suckers" know just what "buttons" to push, when they're orally servicing another male................

 

Eh, it just feels like it. Most men not only suck cock, they swallow cum, something that the ladies aren't always a fan of doing and more so if/when they want the dick - and the cum - in their pussy and, well, but guys suck cock for the express purpose of also getting that nut in their mouth or on their face. Technique has a lot to do with this and so does the depth of someone's mouth - and women tend to have smaller mouths than men so doing something like deep throating the dick might be easier for a guy to do.

I suck cock so I have that general idea of where a guy's buttons are and let's get something straight: Not all of us cocksuckers service men; I know I don't, and I have never sucked a guy's cock to make him happy or doing it to make him think that what I'm doing is all about him. The notion that cocksuckers service men is just some bullshit put into the game to boost some male egos and a notion aimed at submissive cocksuckers who do, by their own admittance, service men and as if it's their lot in life. Which is fine... but this isn't a competition. I have been told that I suck cock better than a woman does - but I've been sucked by women who can make me look like I never learned how to suck a dick and, end of the day, it doesn't matter who's better - but this is more bullshit being put into the game to divide us and, often, to minimalize us to be relegated to a service role.

I figure that after 60 years of sucking cock, if I don't know what I'm doing, I don't need to be doing it any longer. I don't buy into the bullshit that says that a man knows what a man needs because I know guys who don't and won't suck cock and I know guys who couldn't suck their thumb, let alone somebody's dick. I have been sucked by guys who are scared shitless to let cum into their mouth which defeats the purpose of giving a blowjob; if you're afraid of cum, don't suck cock.

Just keeping it on the real...

 

Sure, white guys fuck Black guys and... so what? I know about the color contrast and admit that it's kinda hot but you see it enough times and like I have and you see it but don't pay attention to it. It cracks me up to know that for a lot of white men, the wettest dream they can have is fantasizing about being fucked by a Black man and the ubiquitous gigantic cock so they can get owned and slutted out and... I don't understand it and I don't understand what the color of one's skin has to do with being able to give and receive a good fucking...

 

Strange, also, how you hear more about gay/bi guys wanting to get fucked by black guys, but seldom fantasizing about getting fucked by Latino and Middle Eastern (and Asian/Oriental) men.

It would seem to any person of even barely "average" intelligence that there are SEXY and HOT men in EVERY ethic/racial group.

If I think a guy is sexy, it is because (duh!) he IS sexy (at least to me) and NOT because of his skin color..........

 

I know guys who fantasize about other ethnicities; in fact, my protege is all about any man... who isn't white. Is it different to be with a Japanese guy? Yeah, if you don't speak Japanese and he doesn't speak English but we both know the universal sign for a BBCs are all the rage and internet porn has a glut of stupidly hung Black men... drilling for oil in pale, white backsides and, perhaps, providing a lot of jerk off material to take care of that fantasy. Black on Asian porn is up there but while there is Latino and ME porn, you don't see a lot of it as a "prime focus" since there are a slew of bottoms looking for a BBC they can call their own - and I wish them a lot of luck.

The things is that we define what sexy means to us; there's an ever-changing social standard of what sexy is and sometimes the two things aren't on the same page with each other or what you find sexy isn't on the social approved list or some other kind of subjective stuff that can prove to make it hard for men to have sex with each other without being all that superficial about it... but that's my take on things and not so much the status quo point of view. The only thing that really matters is do you want to have sex? And with sex between men, dear Lord, we go about picking men for sex like we're gonna get knocked up by a guy and have his babies! Or we're going after guys like we want to marry them - and then get pregnant by them.

Being colorblind works better; gives you many more opportunities to get a lot of dick and this, too, is something that as you age as a bisexual man, you gain the wisdom of looking at things in this way. Really, I'm 68 and I do not give a fuck about the superficial shit...

 

'Colorblind", I feel, is THE way to go, not only in sexual matters, but in ALL matters.

Far too many people get hung up in the "color" thing, and, far too often..............especially sex-wise, literally become OBSESSED with it.

The "exotic" appeal of non-white men, of course, has ALWAYS had a HUGE following (especially, as we know, pale-skinned guys looking to get their butts ripped apart by BBC.

That's like you hear a lot of guys who fantasize about getting their butts fisted by another male.

How much are you willing to bet that, IF they suddenly found themselves in that position, rest assured they'd be TERRIFIED, if they saw a HUGE fist that was aiming for his tight chute!

Once again, yet again, "fantasy" is one thing.......reality is QUITE another............

 

Fisting. You're really pulling out all the kinky stops, aren't you? Is it because you're an ass man at heart and it gets you hard to think about all the ways you can wreck a guy's hole? I don't get the fantasy and more so when guys who have it get squeamish about a single finger going in there just long enough to make sure his prostate is okay... but fantasize about a guy having his arm up his elbow in your ass... and that's sexy? I do think that if faced with this for real, not onl would they be terrified but they just might shit themselves and, really, how do you get to be as old as you are and you haven't learned to be careful what you wish for?

How much is too much? Fisting is too much but what do I know?

 

I totally agree; while I AM, as you know, a BIG TIME "ass man", I also think that fisting is far too "over the top", if you know what I mean.

Like, yeah, I DO get hot as hell the sight of a nice, round meaty set of man mounds, BUT, would I want to shove my fist up that ass?

NOT for me....uh-uh.

As far as fisting porn, about as much I'd get into it is to see a big fist aiming for a hefty, manly ass.......and NO further.

Like what we were taking about before; how many white guys FANTASIZE about getting their butts ripped into by a BBC, BUT, when it was time to put their money where their mouth is, they'd either quake with terror, or scream and plead the whole time they were getting plowed.

Again, "be careful what you wish for".........

 

Oh yes. That got me hooked. Old Mike the old cock sucker. Good Lord could he suck cocks. It was so intense I just gave him my cock and balls to do as much as he wanted to me. His whole sex life was sucking as much come out of big stiff cocks as he could Nice sociable guy too. At his place my pants came off as soon as I arrived, and he was always feeling me up even when we're just having tea. Never a drop of come left in my balls when I left.

 

What I know is what a lot of women find out: Bigger ain't necessarily better. Ya think you can handle that huge dick right up until it's going in you and now you're having second thoughts and more so when the owner of the huge dick is more of a mind to use it as a weapon to give you a proper beatdown, which means ravaging your hole. Shit, even I learned that lesson and way before I was an adult - but you also shouldn't run and hide from the really big dicks; they don't scare me as much as the guy it's attached to might. A friend wanted a BBC in his ass and I tried to tell him not to believe the hype and definitely don't believe porn because getting a big dick in your ass isn't all that easy.

The guy with the BBC he hooked up literally ripped him a new one and he suffered through a long recovery period with a colostomy bag all because he thought it would be fun, hot, and sexy. He just didn't allow for the guy to be an asshole and one who was know for wrecking virgin assholes...

I've seen guys tap out trying to get a mere five inches in them. Screaming like they're being murdered just trying to get the head in. You live and learn and when someone tells you to not go after the biggest dick you can find for your first anal experience, well, I bet you wish you had listened, huh?

 

I am now reminded of "Sam", a now-deceased (gay) fellow (RIP) who I met on the internet (he was all the way down in Florida) about 9 years ago, and we became great phone friends; though he was then 90, he had an UNQUENCHABLE desire to suck cock and also get fucked!

Though he had outlived two partners, he was STILL getting it on a few times a week with several gay/bi guys, the youngest (a mechanic) was in his early 60's.

Sam told me that his buds told him that NO ONE could suck a cock as well as he did (I believe it!)

This 90-plus guy was literally "A-DICK-TED" to cock!

I still miss talking to the old boy...........he was a TRIP, without a doubt!

 

My step sister, who told me all her sexual secrets, (gets me horny) said she'd had dicks in her ass since mid teens and she still couldn't take some of the big fat ones she's had in her vag. For her anal romps, 6 inches and a bit on the thin side was the best she says.

 

Not surprised; every last one of us who has sucked dick gets seriously hooked on doing it and being fucked? Not really as bad as they say it is, huh? If you've never sucked dick, you can't imagine how fucking good it can make you feel to be doing it and it can get you feeling all slutty and whorish as you work you mouth on him and enticing him to cum in your mouth; or you're beneath him and he's pounding that dick good, hard, and deep into your backside and you're egging him on, telling him to fuck the shit out of you and to cream your ass - and it's a reality that pegging cannot ever come close to.

I'd love to be 90 and still around to suck cock and being some young guy's cum dump... because it's never over until it really is.

 

KDaddy23:

Oh, yeah, this old codger (on a walker, no less!) could still suck and fuck like he was 25!

Show him a picture of some rock-hard hung guy and he'd litterally salivate!

The bi mechanic in his 60s told my bud that no woman (including his ex-wife) could suck cock as good as he did!

And, yes, this macho mechanic also enjoyed getting his blue-collar butt fucked hard by a VERY sex-hungry 90-year old dude!

 

When Sam found out that I had 9" inches and I was a (celibate) top, he came pretty close to asking me to marry him!

He made in QUITE clear that with, a cock my size, his mouth and his ass would be mine for the taking!

He sent me a photo of him from back in the 80s, and he was kind of a sexy little Italian daddy; his most recent picture (I swear to God!) looked like Bernie Sanders on a walker!

Walker or no, this little fucker was NOT about to give up man sex!

 

I also remember "Sam" telling me how he could not curb his appetite for cock since his early teens; while he DID enjoy getting blown and also fucking other guys, by and large, he was MORE than satisfied with just getting as much cock as he could find!

He had two partners over the years, and he and they also had fun with other guys, and also one-night stands; he told me that he had (between partners) a three-way with two big truckers, getting spit-roasted at a truck stop!

Sadly, when he had to relocate to a senior facilty, his former fuck buds all simply dropped him, all but the mechanic (I DO recall one of the older bi guys he was having fun with had to exit the picture due to his not-too-pleased wife)

Then, the mechanic relocated out of state, and then, the well ran dry.

When he worked in an insurance office in Philadelphia 40/50 years ago, he also had some pretty hot encounters at the workplace after hours (office perks/overtime, I guess!)

No grass grew under THIS horny old gent's feet, for certain!

 

If you can sow those wild oats, then you should, right? Why restrain or deprive yourself if you don't have to? A lot of guys don't get around to learning about dick until they' thre in their teens and about the time that puberty lands on them like a ton of bricks and an extinction level event meteor. Girls are nice to take care of the severe horniness but girls are flaky and too unpredictable to be relied on for a good, steady source of sex... but other guys are the answer to this problem... and you almost don't have to ask a guy if he wants to because if he does, he's going to let you know.

Once ya get hooked on it, there's no stopping it; you can't get enough of it. Fifty years ago, I was 18... and grass wouldn't grow under my sexual feet. I became a master of my craft, from sex to knowing more about sex and bisexuality than damned near everyone I knew and, again, while some guys just get started at that age, I was an old hand at sex by the time I turned 18. If it's stupid to let society put limits on how you have sex and who you have it with, why would you do that to yourself?

And growing older, at best, just makes you change directions or like an old guy told me, "My mouth and ass still work just fine..."