Bi-Guys Have you ever been asked by wife or girlfriend if you had ever sucked a cock?

I've had girlfriends ask me if I have sucked dick and some of them, I've said yes, I most certainly have and some, well, they were on the "didn't need to know" list. Neither of my wives - ex and current - had to ask me if I had because I told them that I've sucked a lot of cock and it obviously wasn't a problem because they married me!

 

Well, I was asked in a more roundabout way.

When I started dating my wife, I had a VERY close friend that was gay. He and I were in a relationship before I started dating my wife. She met him early on, and asked me if I had ever "experimented" with him. There seemed to be a noticeable twinkle in her eyes when she posed the question, as though it might be arousing to her. I was taken aback, and denied that I had done anything with him. It eventually came out that he and I were lovers for a number of years. She did say that had she known I was bisexual, she may have had some reservations about marrying me.

The reality is that she knew about us, but was in denial about it. I wasn't very diligent in covering my tracks as far as he and I were concerned. I guess on a subconscious level, I did want her to know.

 

My xw never asked, but I this is exactly why I never told her. She was feeding me my cum telling I should have to suck a cock & have a guybcum in my mouth. I craved it, hoped she'd set it up. Buy feared to tell her my past. We split before anything could happen. But I want to suck cock & lose my anal cherry...anyone?

 

Yes I will admit I am Bi if anyone asks. Current wife I told all about my history before we got married. She knows I have dated men, trans, and am a lifelong cocksucker. She watched vids and saw pics of me with men and she says it does nothing for her

 

@thepapasmurph Agreed. My partner and I had a long talk one evening about my interests experiencing sex with a guy or a Trans woman. It was enlightening to her and refreshing to me knowing that she would not look at me different. We even thought about opening up our relationship to a MMF.

 

I have told my ex-girlfriend about sucking cock.we both were bi and it was cool.Sad part she was a compulsive liar and that got old fast.Ive told people online in regular chatrooms not like this and some were repulsed and others fine with it.

 

I've had a couple of girlfriends as well as my current (2nd) wife ask whenever we saw a movie or show with gay guys, but it never seemed like a serious question. More rhetorical expecting my answer to be "no way!". So that's how I answered. When the truthful answer would have been "yes and I loved it and I think about doing it all the time, and more than just oral". Unfortunately if I told my wife that, her head would explode.

 

it's a shame that it is still so much more difficult for a man to openly admit it. I mean, if a guy asks his wife/gf if she has ever gone down on a woman before, I would think the chances are she would admit say if she has or hasn't, and the reaction from the guy would be much more positive either way.

Hopefully with time it gets easier for guys.

But I also think us women have a role to play in it as well in terms of how we ask the question and also making it comfortable for a guy to respond honestly, as opposed to guilting or shaming.