BF is great but doesnt do oral

This is quite a bit more than doing a favor, and she's the only one doing any favors here. It's called reciprocation. She's deserves to have fun just as much as he does or else she has every right to question the relationship. She could end up feeling used.

Read her post, she's LOSING INTEREST in sex. Doesn't matter how much love there is, eventually the flames die down and good sex does matter to how one feels about the relationship.

Whether you like it or not good sex is important to one's happiness, bad sex is grounds for divorces IMHO.

 

Hyzenthlay and rasprophecy:
First of all, when you eat a girl you lick her clit, not her vagina.
The clit is external and just as easy to clean as any dick.

Semen tastes excessively salty by NATURE whereas a clean, healthy pussy tastes like chicken. I'd rather eat chichen than brine.
About giving head, girls have complained about musty smell of the pubes, cheese on the foreskin, body odor, so yeah bj can be every bit as nasty as eating pussy.


edit: I reread the post and I didn't mean to direct this to to gig instead of Hyzenthlay, sorry.

 

good points. But either way i will never eat another pussy. If my lady wants to get off I use black dick or my finger, no toys, no tongue.

 

and any girl that sucks an uncut dick, she better expect dick cheese, must, mold, slime, bacteria, dirt, grime, gunk, filth, all that nasty shit.

 

As long as there's a mutual exchange and both of you are happy with it then that's all that matters. There's girls out there that don't like to get licked and these are the girls that are compatible with guys like you.
The OP is however not compatible with guys like you and she must make a decision about the future of this relationship.

To the OP, could you try talking to him again and scrub yourself there thoroughly in front of him, or have him do it for you, so he can be convinced that you're clean and see if this relieves his hangups.

 

i wonder why they have on this forum a place where you can quote people????all you are capable of is calling people names and i'm sorry but i find that so funny...but then again you are only 19.apparantly ebonics, smoking blunts 101, name calling and dick jiz shooting are the only classes YOU SEEM TO HAVE HAD NO PROBLEM WITH.your parents must be so proud hahahahahhahahahahahahahahaha

 

peaceexpansion, Im in the same situation. Its terrible. I cant have an orgasm any other way. My bf skips foreplay all together, which often causes me to bleed.

 

that strikes me as being somewhat naive.

 

wtf! why are you putting up with that? seriously, kick him to the curb! that is total bullshit!

 

that can cause actually end up causing problems for you phsyically down the road (sex that regularly makes you bleed), you MUST talk to him about it and learn to say "no" if you are not ready yet

 

Maybe I care about my partner more than just for sexual favors?

Peace and love

 

Thanx I really appreciate everybodys help. I care about him much more than for sexual favors but part of being in a monogamous relationship(I believe) is wanting to please each other as long as isnt demeaning of course. I am planning on talking with him about it more before i jump ship completely.

 

My boyfriend doesn't like to do it so I don't push him. Being in a monogamous relationship is about respecting your partner instead of thinking only about your own pleasure. Some guys just don't like giving oral. That is not anything to ditch your man over, unless you are only with him for sexual reasons.

Peace and love

 

The same goes for him. Sexual dissatisfaction can lead to infidelity.
Let me repeat, RECIPROCATION, it is more than just doing a little favour.
Is he able to make you climax by other means? If so, fine. But if he's not reciprocating then I wouldn't call that any respect for you, but total selfishness on his part.
If I was in that situation I would end up feeling used and yes I would lose interest in sex.
The display of true love goes both ways.

 

okay, talk to me in 20 years.

 

If we are both here, I will. I have been with him for 3 years and I am totally satisfied because our bond is deeper than sexual favors.

Peace and love

 

but goes both ways if some1 is uninterested at the time or not into everything its about respecting that as well..
me i like everything giving all i can give.. but no more then they can handle make love at the threshhold of nirvana or be gentle as a breeze... i've never been with any1 who didnt climax multiply.. but a few who never had at all & 2 never with men my wife sunshine i wouldnt dare touch too sexualy now or for a long time maybe forever because of the magical wonderful being she is i hope someday but prolly wont be soon & its wonderful just the way it is ...she did change her orientation from lesbian to bi. auras like 1 of the most loving souls both are i guess all 3 i guess im lovin even if im harsh... sometimes u gotta be harsh to the 1's u love (talkin to all hipforumers i've been harsh with... sometimes gotta shake ppl...
what was the point of all this? oh

theres many things that can cause infdelity theres 1 thing that bonds.. that is love love can survive infidelity love can survive life itself..
when your loving & relating.. relationship is relating getting to really know & apreciate the ones your with
for me its so ez theyre incredible
are you communicating being loving being honnest in all things?
are u giving eachother what they need?
are you talking about why you did the thigs u did everything?
sometims ppl make mistakes & if it happens & u love them enough to forgive isnt that love?. real love?
love sometimes hurts but anything can begotten over if you love
damn those good blunts im all over the place tonight
lovin it lovin life lovin my wives lovin our relationships & how we relate & enhance & contract & mesh & meld & isnt that what its all about?
are ya givin eachother all the time they need but also all they need apart?
relationships take alotta relating , communicating being honnest & forgiving
open & loving & uniting....that is all

 

ok, you can have a non-sexual, loving relationship.

hippie_chick666 how about this:
The OP said she is losing interest in sex, but loves her partner. Soon she will not want sex. Why should he force it on her any more than she forces him to do oral.
So what do you think if she talked it over with her man and says that they are not sexually compatible and she doesn't want sex with him. They can still be together and cuddle but not go all the way.
Now he will prolly want sex...but she won't.

So if she doesn't force him to do oral than is it fair that he doesn't force her to have sex? Coital intercourse is after all just another sexual favour if the girl has lost interest in it.

This is not an ultimatum, just doing what's fair, no favours for no favours.
Lots of couples don't have sex together.

I'd like to hear your reply to this.

 

exactly
personsonaly i love it till my tongue cramps but bont need it at all
but exactly very well said..
i couldnt agree more

but wow that last post mighta been in the wrong thread..lol
thought we were talking bout ooh shit yea...man im stoned & happy
ah yes...
relating is about respecting what is & isnt ok.. ..exactly.
some ppl cant
but some ppl are selfish too
are they selfish ppl in general?
relationships take alotta understanding
& everybuddy might not be into everything u are. & u might not be into everything they are.. but u love eachother much as you can & u dont nned everything (i do have the advantage of 2 & ...imm just guessin here but.. dont think aura would mind 4-8 hours )
ah but hippiechick.. we maybe 3 but we are monogomouse..
we're quite happily married blissfully id say
love is.. u give what u can.. u dont need what u cant have or shouldnt.. ...
you are all you can be for eachother..
yrespect eachother & work tigether to make eachother happy

 

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Time to talk and make use of that tongue to figure it out. If this is a huge issue for you then so be it and figure it out.

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