Its a bit amazing when I look at my husband, he's 59...all he sees is his thinning gray hair, gray beard, gray moustache, slight paunch. I see the man I fell in love with when I was 12 years old, in all his glory. When he looks at me and smiles I still melt. All those movie star guys that alot of women talk about hold nothing for me, give me a real man like my Larry anyday. I think Homebudz is absolutely beautiful and if I saw the rest of you, I'm sure I would think the same. I am attracted to the essence of a person, man or woman,and if the right vibe is there for me I just want to spend time with them, and learn more. I can't think of another group of people I'd rather spend time with than the friends I've made here. I've gotten to know you through your words, thoughts,feelings, and actions that you've shared....you know,...the important stuff,not the fluff. teepi