Being comfy or taking a risk?

In theory, I wanted a relationship that was safe and comfortable. I am not easily bored so I figured that would be fine.

But the relationship that I do have is fun and I am usually completely unsure about what is going to happen next. It has caused me a lot of stress and unhappiness... but also wonderful happiness and I wouldn't change it.

 

I generally take the ultimate risk in my choice in relationships in hopes of finding true comfort. I am currently taking the greatest risk giving my soul to someone where all the cards are stacked against us, but I take that risk because no one has ever made me feel so comfortable. I don't settle. I go after who I fall in love with no matter how 'risky' the circumstances might be.

 

im a comfortable boring seeming type of guy. but i have more fun and adventures than anyone ive ever met. most exciting dangerous looking dudes are losers who never do anything. i would stick with love and comfort, and see what YOU can bring to the table. dotn end up with a drunk wife beater who does nothing for years on end, just cus he looks edgy and exciting.

 

I want a mix....I want a guy who can work 40 hours a week, be a stable person...but isn't afraid to drop a bit of dough on a trip, spur of the moment...I want both, basically

 

Why r you posting here? You lookin?

:sunglasse ..