"Baby you need to loose weight"

she gets offensive because you are pointing her fatness out to her and she is already aware of it inside..She already feels depressed about it..buit something emotional has happened along the way to make her put on the pounds..usually when people are overweight it is a health issue like a thyroid problem which needs to be check by a docter or she is emotionally eatting to cover up some feelings inside...and she is talking badly to you to try and make you feel bad like shes feeling...

 

dont fuck her.

dont even touch her.

if nothing happens dump her :|

 

That, or she's aware of the signals you're giving her and, while not certain enough to actually lash out at you directly for it, expresses her anger indirectly, though at you. If you don't like who she is, please don't be with her; she'll lose weight when she finds out she has to find a new boyfriend anyway, so you aren't obligated to push her to it.

Kind wanna hear how that acid trip worked out for communication

 

Why do you want to be around this person?

No it isn't. In no way are you obligated to take charge of her life. Neither are you obligated to nag her into doing the right thing.

You are obligated to her to be truthful with her. To not hang out with her if its a burden to you. (Doing otherwise deceives her into thinking that you enjoy her company.) To tell her your honest opinions or to withhold them if you think that is kinder.

You're not her mommy. Its not your job to fix her. You need to find the woman who you love the way that she (new woman) is now. To do otherwise is to cheat both yourself and your woman.

 

You shouldn't feel obligated to stay with her, do what makes you happy man.

 

You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. She knows she's fat.

 

I agree with about everything that's been said. If you aren't happy, leave her. There are so many happy couples out there, and so many chances for you to find real happiness, and it'd be a shame for you to waste your life just because you feel you need to better her. You have tried to help her lose weight and obviously she just won't have it. Time to move on.

 

what a cool fuckin idea man, i love it:cheers2:

 

me too, besides the weight, but it was bad enough when she looked smoking

 

just tell it straight in her face. tell her that she doesn`t turn you on like that and if she cares about that she must do something about it. Ask her if she really does feel good in her skin, does she really likes herself the way she is at the moment-and if she says yes than leave it be the way it is. You are not the one to ruin the woman's comfort.
But from what u are saying i doubt she feels good the way she looks ( why is she breaking mirrors damned?) and a very fractious stiff necked woman she seems to be. Why are u even staying with her when she is not able to speak to you, when u cant communicate normally. Why are u with her when she is insulting you , while you are trying to help her ? This seems disrespectful of her in my eyes