Attracting the beautiful girls

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didnt see that, whats the link? i'll be happy to look that over

 

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oh hmm i just looked over your past threads, didnt see the 1 u mentioned, but now i remembered ya talking about getting horny over some really unatractive girls
and even after your masterbating to some really unatractive girls you only want some hottie..?
i dont think your problem so much is about being attracted to unatractive girls..or not havin the confidence to attract the beautiful ones.. i think ya have some deep seatted issues with women in general, and you should work on them
i'm wondering if theres an ussue withyour mother or another woman in your life whos really messed ya up..
just seems to be alotta issues that go beyond just the problem of being ble to approach an attractive woman

 

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damn..so you wanted to punch the girl for smilling at you?
and you wonder why no girls attracted to you?
do you always have a pissed off look?
do you look at girls like..why dont you like me you stupid fucking bitch..i hate you..i'll kill you for not liking me

yea..that will get em all hot and interested

i think ya better try the therapy again

 

aren't you the guy who always has to appear tough because he's so vulnerable inside. The one who wanted to kill people who laughed at him for walking around with his ass scrunched up tight all the time.

I can almost guarantee that a girl would be afraid to be alone with you, as you are totally unstable and violent seeming, and lacking in the humor dept.

Girls just wanna have fun, my friend, you are going nowhere with girls until you loosen up and stop coming off as a total creep

 

In college the only thing that I looked at when it came to guys was their personality. All girls no matter what will choose a guy they can enjoy being with. It really sounds like you have all these expectations about what a girl should be attracted to. My first suggestion is that if you have any female friends, sisters girls close to your age talk to them; ask them how they see you because they know you also ask your friends what they thought of you when they first met you. Then you can see how others who don't know you might get first impressions that are not always flattering. Talk to people that actually know you and that will help you figure it out. Because people here can only judge you on what you post not actually who you are.

 

I agree with your statements on the surface.

The best way to meet girls is to put yourself out there and be sociable. Get a job, volunteer, play a sport, join a club, do something to better your chances of interaction.

*shrugs*

 

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Man the truth is that you have a disease that makes you think you have a clue when you don't. You have very poor socialization skills in general and women are not going to flock to that. What you think is going on, isn't. What you think others think, isn't what they think. What you think is real, isn't. The only way to get past this is to continue your therapy and hopefully as you age you can catch on enough to stop pushing others away. Good luck to you.

 

well..that right theresa problem
i've been billied too, but putting up a fake dont fuck with me attitude aint gonna win you no freinds
vulnerable means approachable..
i'm always very open honnest freindly and yes vulnerable..and have very beautiful girls around mre all the time
your closing yourself off ..protecting yourself from bad experiences, but at the same time shutting yourself off from good as well..
assumming every girl will instantly dislike you you project an image of someone who just wants nothing to do with humanity at all..
stop being an image..be yourself..make some freinds..enjoy being with people and yourself..and youll be alot more attractive

 

agreeed
but hes also young, only 17..and not in touch with himseld yet, as u can tell by the whole projecting the tough guy thing..i did that too when i was younger, but not somuch closed off from women cause i had toooo many at the time..but i understand projectin an image thats not quite who you are, since your still tryin to figure that out

 

With all due respect, Chris, I'm so sick of reading your "feel sorry for me" posts and acting like a total dickwad.

Why don't you go to a therapist and stop bitching about people not talking to you.

Hmmm, GEE, I wonder why no one talks to you, look how you treat people who try and give you advice.

Seriously, grow up and go talk to someone that MAYBE can help you with your socialization issues.

 

your image is horrible, and you are pretending to be something you are not. Girls do not like guys they are afraid of being beaten by on the whole, and if they do like that, they have their own problems.

You think people can't see through your tough guy costume, but they can, they can tell you aren't real, and that you are unstable.

If you continue with this charade, you are going to end up being alone and remain a virgin. If you don't let someone know the real you, they aren't going to see anything to love, or like even, they are going to see some self absorbed dude with a stick up his ass ready to kill something because of the crying little boy inside

you need to go to the proverbial mountain, and emerge as your true self. one who tries to enjoy life, who is fun to be around, and who is more transparent....

 

To the OP, has it ever occured to you that you might have problems? You say you basically lack any self esteem, and don't know anyone, yet you want a girl that's beautiful, and hence would probably be decently popular and have good self esteem. Also you say you don't talk to anyone, which is normally the 1st step in finding a girl. And your personality is shit. You lack any self esteem, but at the same time seem to have a rather big ego. And not just with girls, but in another thread you said you wanted a job, but not stupid dead end job, I mean you're 17, if you make $1 over minimum wage that's a damn good job for you. You automatically think people aren't accepting of you, you freak out because someone walked out of a store, put some bottles down and looked at you. In another post you go on about how much a shouting argument you had with your father bothered you, and admited to having tears come out about it later, yet a paragraph later you were worried about sounding "girly and gay" about not talking because you don't like your voice.(and my god, don't like your voice, I have a freakin speech impediment and it doesn't stop me from talking up people or having a g/f) And you also come off as highly defensive when anyone offers their honest opinion, hell you freaked out at someone when they asked where you lived, and going back to your original problem here there's another turn off. A brown hair girl looks at you twice and kind of gives you a grin, and you're pissed off she'a laughing at you, you ever think maybe she was giving you a little bit of a flirt?

But back to the point I was going to make, you got issues kid.

and relax.

 

Look at me! I can pick on an autistic high-schooler! My self-esteem must be so high.

Cut the kid some slack.

And lets be honest here - and I know you all think you're beautiful people - Highschool is full of worthless little girls whose only redeeming quality are their nubile good looks (that'll fade away in a couple years and 40 pounds). Defending their personalities is like defending the French Army's courage.

The problem is Chris, and no offense, you aren't going to get with any of them. Getting ass in highschool is tied directly to popularity, and you are (it sounds like) on the bottom rung of the totem pole.

Its a whole package... Make more friends, if you can, and if you have the talent join the school's football or rugby team. Chicks will come.

If not, just wait for university.

 

lol.... the more I read about this chris character, the more it makes me laugh. Chris, your attitude clearly sucks. The fact that you walk around in some black jacket or you own 3 shirts or you've managed to replicate your personality off of the Mitchell brothers or whatever it is makes you sound a little lame and superficial.

Again, if this is how you really are irl, then you kinda have to get your head checked.

And again, I'm repeating myself.... Instead of being so self involved by how YOU look or how you THINK other girls are, why don't you just drop that act and put yourself out there? Go where girls go.... go to a bar, maybe, and offer to buy a woman a drink or something, anything. Don't do cheezy pick up lines - or any pick up lines, really, because most of them are cheezy anyway, and don't put on an act. Just put your honest self out there and see what happens.

 

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