good point...sometimes i see couples where one is way ugly and the other is gorgeous....kinda sad to me.
I've liked a guy who was 5'8" before, and a guy who was 6'5"... I'll admit, I tend to like taller guys, but I mean it's not like I wouldn't like a guy who was on the shorter side. (as long as he was taller than me - 5'6)
I prefer my guys the to be around the same height as me, no taller then 5' 10". I dated a guy that was 6' 5". I only felt somewhat comfortable when I had heals on so that I was closer to his height. I've never had an issue with guys being shorter, so I dunno how I would feel about that.
ive been attracted to/dated guys that were pretty short. i usually end up dating guys that were really tall though. my hub is 6'4 and im only 5'1
I have dated shorter(though not slept with) and taller.. I have found shorter and taller men attractive. I guess, visual alone I tend find people close to my height (5 9) (not terribly short or freakishly short) more attractive - but either can have other qualitys that make them really hot height no being much of a factor to sway it.
Nearly 60 percent of CEO of Fortune 500 companies are over six feet tall (and 30 percent are over six feet two inches. Taller people, as a group, are perceived as more intelligent, more dominant, and better leaders. But when wealth compensates, short guys aren't shortchanged. (It's mutual: men prefer shorter partners.)
In all honesty, height does matter for me, but I *can* overlook it, IF everything else is right. I am 5'3'', so in order to be taller than me, or a good amount taller than me, it doesnt take much....so if you are my height or close to my height, that really is short. I like a guy around 5'9'' and up.
Being in a band, the winning sports team... :ack2: But actually, even though I tend to concurr- it's simplistic. A lot of women love to care for debilitated men. I think what really does it is being entirely present and taking ownership of yourself. If it's low-status--- wear the motherfucker like a royal mantle. And many women will respond. We all know the biggest pick up artist in history was the malcontent, starving poet.
Sometimes I feel being loved by a woman isn't as difficult as getting a legitimate chance to get to know them. Women are constantly ellusive, avoidant, defensive, stand-offish, assuming the worst about me, sorrounded by friends who defend them, tucked in VIP rooms and other exclusive venues. And they have to be. If I can a solid second date- I'm in.
If you're shorter than me, it's a no go, because I don't dig midgets. "Midgets piss me off! Frowny face"