Ask a Whole White Person Anything =D

But it's not old! You should revel in yo' youth

 

heheh, it's all about perspective... For me, I've been waiting to be "old" for most of my life and now that I'm older I miss being young. It's not gonna stop me from having fun or being as foolish as possible though...

 

I can totally relate to that. I do really miss being younger mainly for the lack of responsibilities, but there are things I can do now I'm older that I couldn't do when I was younger. LOL A lot of people ask me now I'm married when am I gonna give my husband babies. And it pisses me off rotten because I still feel like a kid.

 

that's an odd question... does he want babies?

 

Absolutely not. I guess it just does my head in that people assume a wedding ring gives people the right to butt in on your life.

 

Yea, when people do that kinda stuff to me I usually just ask them questions about why they are asking/thinking that so that they can reveal their own closemindedness instead of me having to point it out to them... sometimes it works sometimes it doesn't

 

I hate that just because I have kids, ppl assume that I'm married or that I want to be married.

 

I do find it shocking the closemindedness, I get it even worse from my peers. They pity me. I was in a bar a while ago with some uni mates and the bar maids were really shocked that I was married I don't get it at all. I can still have fun. Different strokes for different folks. I wanna start a thread about this now see what other married people's opinions are.

 

In here, or one of the other forums? I'll check it out if you do, but being unmarried I would do so 'silently'... anyways, I need to get off the internets and do some work... it was a pleasure chatting with you as usual.

 

On here. You don't have to be silent you can give your views on marriage too!