My buddy and I have held a devoted schedule for the past 12 years now. We've managed to alternate a bi-weekly schedule. Twice this week, three times next week. It's been a very enjoyable journey with him. He and I were obviously meant for each other.
Proper technique goes beyond instantly providing maximum stimulation and attempting to deep throat. You start slow and easy... and gradually increase the heat. You make him WANT it... Similar to going down on a woman, but women require a lot slower ramp and enjoy more teasing.