Are you a caller or a texter?

Both.

 

Yeah, I dislike that intensely. Most of my closer friends don't do that.

 

I text always. I hate talking on the phone. I think its partly because I have to ask what they're saying over and over cause I can't hear shit.

 

in my very limited experience, texting does not work in this situation. even if that is the only way you have ever communicated with her..

but you probably know better than i do.

 

I'm a bother. Depends on the situation. Sometimes I like to send a quick text to let someone know I'm still alive... Because I'm really bad at keeping in touch with people.

I don't see a problem with that. Gives her a bit of time to think and come up with a lovely reply, too.

Mix it up a little..

Text her, ring her, e-mail her, send her a letter.....

 

No I don't. I still can't figure out what they want despite having a sister and many female friends, as well as some short lived relationships. Its like trying to decipher the enigma code.

 

apparently you do...

 

What is wrong with you Brian? Every woman on this site wants to have your baby?

 

well they can say that since they all live a safe distance from me...

 

Text her and ask her if she's still up for it, then call her a few hours later to iron out the details.

easy peasy.

 

Hence the question, what is wrong with you?

Or am I probing too much?

 

I usually hate talking. If I am talking about a specific topic, I can hang...but I despise chit chat. Ok, chit chat that is serious. I can hang with jokes and bullshit too.

As for the ladies, if I can text I will text. I've gotten dates texting. If I call, it's just to set up the date and maybe talk and flirt a little bit.

I really don't understand why people like to talk about nothingness unless you're already friends or something.

But sometimes I like to talk (as an exception) and let up. It all depends...my ideal process of bonding with someone would be over a joint productive (rather than bourgeois-consumptive) activity, like walking or kissing.

Linear conversation makes me bond with no one.

 

eh, you're not probing too much. i just don't know the answer.

 

Maybe the answer is nothing at all?

I can't eat what everyone else can eat. I'm allergic to perfume. I'm anxious. I'm intense. I live by myself. I don't like people. If I can get women, you can. OK. I'll stop now. Just think about it.

 

Yah dude you must be joking.

 

you have gotten women; i haven't.... i do see where you're coming from and i'm sure you have a point, but obviously something isn't working the way it should or we wouldn't even be discussing this.

but whatever, i don't really feel like arguing to prove i'm more pathetic than anyone else right now anyway..

 

They may just be intimidated by your humour and charm.

 

if only i was a less interesting person...

 

I prefer calling. I rarely do either, though.. I use my cell phone very sparingly.

As for girls, when I get a girl's number, I always call. I haven't really tried otherwise so I dunno how well texting would work, but it just feels wrong to me.

And undies, I've said this before, but I barely believe you don't get girls. You are really sharp and witty. I understand you don't want to talk about it, but I bet if you act with girls the way you do here you would have no problems. (Not coming onto you here.)