Are men really ever too tired--honestly!!!

Well, unless you know people that need eight hours to be ready/need to ejaculate (working on the principle that most peeps get eight hours sleep, and the dreaming process happens late in any natural sleeping pattern) .... your "alternate possiblity" is just shit.

no need to apologise tho'.... ain't your fault yer don't know the basics of how the male reproductive system works

 

i'm not saying it doesn't work like that. i'm saying anybody who uses that as justification is lying - they beat off because its fun.

 

Yeah, what every one else is saying. He wasn't rejecting you, he just wanted a quick jerk and to go to sleep. Most likely it had nothing to do with you. Dudes do this (hey chicks do it, too!) I don't see any problems, as long as the two you are still having regular, satisfying sex.

Yep. Not being a man myself, I couldn't have said it better. I have lived with the same man for more than 20 years, and dating dudes for nearly 20 years, I know and dudes just need to do this, I doubt it was his first time. Don't take it personally. Really.