anyone please

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by ukpokerplayer, Apr 18, 2008.

  1. ukpokerplayer

    ukpokerplayer Member

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    i can you say i am gay joey when u dont even no me mate
     
  2. scub

    scub Member

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    I'm a little late here but i'll share my thoughts. don't get offended by others statements. remember, you're the one asking for advice.

    you're 23, old enough to know what you like by now. if you dream and fantasize about guys and are also attracted to female, then you're likely bisexual. 5 years is a long time to be thinking about cock and not knowing if you like it. if you were horny and hard like a rock and saw a cock would u grab it? this isnt' something a normal str8 person would do... i started liking guys when i was 17-18 yrs old, i'm 28 now and i still think the same.. actually, to be honest i've been with a few guys (no sexual intercourse) and I like them more now than i ever did.

    seems you just can't accept the fact that your either bi or gay? i think everyone was there at once point in their life.. but many learn to accept. I know i have. I'm proud to be bisexual and fully accept the way i am.. i told my bestfriend this when i revealed myself to him and he looked at me and smiled when i told him i rather be this way.

    I like having sex with girls, love looking at their body., but the same applies for guys, i feel the same way about them.

    you don't have to have sex with the same sex to classify yourself as gay or bi.. just fantasizing and wanting to be with the same sex should be self explantory.. going to a doctor or some kind of health specialist is a waste of time in my book.

    if you like cock, go and find out what it's like., and if you return smiling then you know..

    but, if you have the desire to try it and you don't in fear of finding out the truth, then you myfriend are in denial.
     
  3. Joey*

    Joey* Freaky Supportr Dude

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    Hey, ukpokerplayer
    Yea I'm sorry dude that was rude.I was getting impatient with you.

    Anyway I think scub has got some good advice here.Try to pay attention,slow down and think.
    We are all afraid when changes like this happen to us when we begin to notice we are different.I think from the responses you have a good idea what's going on,and some possible solutions.Yes,it's a difficult place you find yourself in.
    Be brave enough to explore and find the truth of who you are,you don't have to hide.
    We know what you're going through.We've all been there,and trying to help.
    You're not alone.
    J
     
  4. ukpokerplayer

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    yes but when u say u have all being there befoe, u are implying thta i am gay, i have never being with a man, nor kissed aman, i thin about this everday, its like an obssesion, i am not in denial about anything because i know what i like i dont like , its like i need to try it just so my answers are solved compltetely, i mean i am obssesed with sex mainly staright porn, i wank 3 times a day cant stop thinking about gay sex, i never actaully wank to gay sex but go on there just to have a look, i juts dont think i could ever go with a man, it just wouldnt feel right
     
  5. ukpokerplayer

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    when i here people say if u like cock u are gay, so why do i here all this about that gays and bis, are all about the emotions side then this is what makes me even more confused about everything
     
  6. scub

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    dude, no one is saying you're gay or even implying you are.

    i'm not gay, i am bisexual. i fuck men and girls.. what most are saying is maybe you're just bi. a person that likes both male and female. whether you like just the cock or the whole body, it's all the same..

    so in short, gay people are attracted to the same sex exclusively, bisexuals like both.

    i suggest you go try what you feel, then come back and tell us what you think? if you like it then you're probably bisexual, that's all.
     

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