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When Ive done it my gf said she felt massively in control. Like super sexy and powerful. Controlling men's desires and emotions. Especially when I went second. She said it is super powerful to know and see how much I want her even after another man has obviously enjoyed her body. For me it's that amazing mixture of jealousy, lust, desire,, wonder and ownership. Somehow when he has her I own him too

 

Well said. I would agree

 

Does your husband join in or watch, or prefer to wait? All can be very exciting

 

All of the above depending on the situation

 

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I agree. Waiting at home and hearing the details can be delicious exciting. And it gives her the space. I've also enjoyed watching (usually close up) and joined in although just holding hands and looking at eachother while he's inside her is amazing. That electrical connection between us at those moments is unlike anything else

 

I know the feeling

 

The two highlights are the first pentration and when the other guy ejaculates. We like it to be as deep as possible inside her and her preference is if they hold it there, rather than keep thrusting. That way she can feel him pumping and pulsing inside her. Sometimes the jet itself. When i look into her eyes I can see she's feeling it.

 

So true

 

The first time I watched I spontaniously ejaculated as he came. I didn't even touch myself. I just leant back and the tension and seeing her was enough. She watched smiling as by semen shot our over the bed

 

Wow, that sounds kind of hot. Wish my bf had done that instead of freaking out! I really wanted him to touch himself and maybe cum with me, holding hands sounds really nice too, I would do all of those things. I just need to give him time right now, he thought he was the one who wanted it while I was really unsure, now it's the other way round, I'm dying to try it again but I don't dare suggest it because of the way he reacted last time.

 

How did he react?

 

Read my previous posts in this thread. Not very well....

 

I'm sure he will get over it. It can be very intense seeing you partner like that. It would probably have been better if he'd fucked you straight away.

 

I'd have gone for that, but he says he doesn't want to get involved physically with the other guy there. I guess all you guys like different things!

 

He could then have had you as soon as the other guy left. Feeling you partner wet from another guy can be so so hot. He might have been better not to watch. Just have you afterwards. That's often just as hot, if not hotter

 

Definitely, I'd love that. If he hadn't been so upset I would have made love to him straight away. Next time we'll do it properly and I'll make sure he has me straight after, that sounds really sexy.

 

It is really intense. But also very close. You'll be giving yourself to him totally knowing he can feel the previous guy. I love that sensation

 

You mean feeling the other guy's semen? He was wearing a condom though, I'm too scared of STIs with random guys like that. On that note, I didn't suck the guy off but would that be fairly safe if I didn't swallow?

 

Most people seem to,accept that. No condoms are MUCH better but you have to find the right guy. From your partners perspective entering you if he can feel the other guys semen is way better. Much more primal and intimate.

 

Have you had any more discussions with you partner?