Anybody else feeling more gay as you get older?

I love it, nothing like two guys providing for each other. I'm four days dry and going crazy since my man is out of town. When he returns, I assure you I'll provide for him in a very similar fashion.

 

Yes this is definitely the case with me. I still have an attraction to women but my attraction to men has grown such that I desire a man more than a woman now. I have had zero success with women and think it’s because I’m meant to be with a man romantically.

At 55yo now I hope it’s not too late to find true love with a good man. I’m not looking for hook-ups but a LTR where we share our lives together.

 

Oh I’ve become more open sexually through the years. I gauge mine by Twitter porn. at 70% women but now 30% cocks. Large ones are so erotic. Guess I’m a size queen. Haha.

 

Woman are as sexy as fuck. But for the most part of my life. A very large endowed cock pic would grab my attention. And in a male to male experience years ago the guy wanted to kiss or more which I had the no fly zone there. But now being totally open to a man is soo erotic.

 

Yes absolutely so

 

That is beautiful!! Think I’m going to go stroke my cock now after reading that.

 

I’ve always loved pussy more but with a wife that isn’t very interested anymore, there’s a lot of cock in my mouth anymore.

 

I was straight as an arrow until I turned 45 and saw a guy on a dating site that had a beautiful cock. After that I started wondering till finally had oral with a few guys.
As I’ve aged my opinion is there is no more beautiful a body part than a beautiful cocktail…and I love women

 

One of my most erotic experiences was showering with a guy. Don’t do anal, but soaping each other off, him jacking me off standing to the side of me and playing with my butt. Wooo so good

 

I feel such a kindred soul in you. With nothing but failure with women, having had sex with only three women in my life, one a prostitute, two whom I was in very rollercoaster brief relationships with where they broke up with me multiple times, contrasted with having had oral sex with hundreds of guys and anal sex with a few, now having no interest in ever having sex with a woman again, I just feel, like you, that all this is because I've always been meant for another man. When I finally had my cock deep inside another man's ass for the first time in 2013 at 51, part of me knew this. But it still took me another 10 years to finally fully accept that I'm actually gay.

It's been a few years since you wrote this, so I hope you have found that special gay love you've been looking for all your life. I'm still looking myself. I now know that I'm 100% ready to fall in love with another man, because I've had a few romantic crushes already. With all of this already said, and the fact that I've never fathered a child with a woman, I also now know that my sperm has always been meant for other men and men alone, to share my seed essence with other men, to so-called breed with men, for my DNA to merge with their bodies and become one with them. I'm on prep now and so I'm ready for this too. And with love on top of this, I know it's going to be the gay union I was always meant for. I hope it happens.

 

I too like to fantasize about guys during sex with my wife. Hottest time was when we had a MMF, and my guy came in her when she was riding him. I cleaned both his cock and her pussy. Delightful.

But lately I also find that remembering the times with my wife also get me hard. Give her some more thought.

 

Same here, I shut my eyes and pretend she's a man.

 

Nah, not me. I've been bisexual and in the way that I am for six decades, and I see - and have - no reason to change although I can understand why some guys would be drawn to being more gay than bi or to go fully over to the gay side of things. I've experienced being in love with a guy and it was nice and exciting, and it changed a lot of things about me... except that I wouldn't want to be gay, and I don't see the reason in exchanging one single source of sex for another single source of sex - and that includes any romantic interest that might come my way. I've actually had a lot of years to think about this and more so when I've known (and been with) guys who used to be bi but as they got older, they found themselves to be gayer than anything else and... I don't have a problem with that; I just know that I don't feel more gay.as I've gotten older.

 

Yes but I think it’s just me feeling more excepting of myself and not hating myself when I had gay thoughts or god forbid jerked off to those thoughts

 

I’m bi been with guys, luckily they were all nice looking. But today I was at the store there was this guy had to be mid 30s or so wearing shorts and sandals and was so cute. I’ve never been attracted like that before to a guy. I didn’t act on it cause I dont know how to tell if someone is gay or bi, plus he’s probably out of my league. Young and good looking me older so felt better not. This is new for me yes hooking up for sex on bi gay sex sites but just at a store usually I notice women like this. It was exciting but kept thinking wow this is new

 

Not more gay, just not as uptight. While I've done it with a couple of very close friends and continue to only have one friend in the same boat, I don't find other men desireable . Its just an acceptable means of satisfaction.

 

Not really gay in terms of romance or anything along those lines, but probably a lot more in the gay vibe in terms of sex. I've never been attracted to men or their bodies, but now think my friend's ass is pretty hot. I was never into anal much, but I will grab my ankles at the drop of a hat and also not shy about giving my friend a few gallons of cum backdoor.

I did tell my former long time sex partner that I'd go gay for him when he moves back. It turns him on a huge amount which is a turn on for me, so who knows.

 

Being that my wife no longer has an appetite for sex and I'm only having sex with other men I guess to most people that would be the definition of being gay, but I personally don't consider myself gay and the men I'm having sex with don't consider themselves gay either. It's "Man-Sex"! My wife has never felt threatened by the men I have sex with, she considers them an ally that is filling in during her absence. She knows I've had a desire for cock long before we met, so she embraces it equally knowing it's never going to change how I feel about her. She used to say she felt bad about losing her desires to have sex anymore, but at the same time she's comforted knowing I have sexual partners available to satisfy my sexual desires. She's also said she's more comfortable with me having "Man-Sex" versus having sex with another woman.

 

I don’t know if it’s “more gay” that I feel or that I’ve become more excepting of who I am.