Any Girls Do Anal Only?

no satisfaction from vaginal?

i find that very hard to believe, you must be doing it wrong :ack:

im not self concious about anal or any type of sex for that matter, i love my body, but i don't overly enjoy anal, its very uncomfortable

although there was one time it was absolutely incredible, but he was also fingering me vaginally so .....

yeah

 

It's been like almost a mood thing with girls I have been with in the past. Once in the mood for anal, that's what they want.

 

My wife & I have been anal only for 15+ years. She was an anal virgin when we met but one night I put Swept Away (the original Lina Wertmuller film, not the remake with Madonna) on the VCR and she was intrigued enough to try it.
The benefits to her are she orgasms every time at least twice (she never reached orgasm during vag sex), the sex lasts longer because we take our time and she no longer gets bladder infections that she would get from regular sex (no kinky stuff, just plain vanilla).
The benefits to me are learning how to be a more sensitive and patient lover (anal sex done right is not a wham, bam, thank you m'am type of thing), slowing my movements down during her orgasm so I can feel the exquisite sensation of small contractions in her rectum and experiencing the best orgasms of my life when, after she has cum to her heart's content, I pull out, lovingly look at her dilated anus which always puts me over the edge and finally cum all over her ass before shoving it back inside her for the last few drops (she likes this too because it leaves her with less of me to expel later).

A Happy Fucker

 

I love when my girl cums doing anal! You are so right, when the anus spasm during her orgasm, it feels SOOOOO good! It massages and milk your cock, it's the best feeling ever, so I have more incentive to make her orgasm, because it feels good to me too.

 

rmorgan and goodvibes83 i like. Wish there was more girls out there like that.

 

I had a time that I could only get satisfaction from anal too, and I agree, anal orgasms are the best

 

i knew a girl like this in highschool as well,
she apparently wanted to stay (technically)a virgin, but she had had anal sex numerous times.

 

My friend has a condition called vaginismus (look it up). It means that vaginal sex for her is painful. The condition is quite common, but I think to have it as severely as she does is unusual.

I'm not 100% sure she has it - from what she tells me she does. Penis' and tampons are too painful for her. I keep on meaning to tell her about it - hopefully it would make her feel better to know that this has a name.

Anyway, she prefers anal.

 

Great thread here, guys! I actually found this through a google search as I was just curious to see were there any other "anal only" peeps out there and liked the discussion a lot so I signed up. Our story is a little similar to some of the others in that we had a lucky coming together where (shortly after we were married) we discovered another thing we didn't realise we had in common which was a love for anal sex. With him it was a little different than for me in that he had always, apparently, been turned on by anal in porn and stuff and the straight to anal in particular. But he hadn't had much experience with it and never really worked up the courage to ask me to try when we were first together. To be honest, I had never really given it much of a thought. Our sex life was pretty good but I have to say I always preferred oral to vaginal sex. It's not that I found vaginal sex uncomfortable or anything and I did enjoy it but I have never had an orgasm from vaginal sex and back then could only come from cunnilingus. About a year after we were married I discovered a porn stash of his and instead of having a big argument about it, I was turned on by it and we watched some together. It didn't escape my attention that the action was exclusively anal but we didn't discuss that directly. That night we started the anal play. That first time it was just a finger up my ass when he was eating me but it made me come so hard I couldn't believe it. It really opened my eyes. We basically spent the next few weeks of sex exploring my ass and by the time he got round to putting his penis there I was hooked. For some reason or other, it just gets me off like nothing else and once we started the anal over time we just dispensed with the vaginal sex. At first we didn't really talk about it, my ass just became the default destination. It was pretty clear that we were no longer doing vag though, I stopped taking contraceptives and he would always be extra careful not to slip into my pussy by mistake as would I if I was "helping him in" but it wasn't until quite a while after we had given up vaginal, maybe 18 months or so, before we talked directly about it. At first I just preferred the anal to vaginal simple as that and I guess he did too but he also had this fetish about it. It gave him a thrill to think that we were just using my ass and not my pussy for sex, that I was now an "anal only" girl and I suppose his kink was infectious because the more I thought about it the more I liked this as an idea too. It's been maybe 10 years now since the last time we had vaginal sex and I can't imagine us ever going back..

 

That's interesting and thanks for sharing Lisalisa.
We are an anal only couple also.
In addition to the other benefits of anal sex such as great orgasms, my wife, being post menopausal, has vaginal dryness. She even uses lube on her vibrator before putting it on her clit.
If it wasn't for anal I don't think we would have sex at all.

 

I dated a girl waaay back that simply didn't care. She'd take it V or A. Couple of interesting things about her: She was a VERY sexual person, just loved sex and she was the only girl I was ever with that needed no extra lube for anal. It was tighter but not like other girls, she had no problem relaxing and taking it up the ass. She could cum either way.

Man I miss her.

 

Hey niceneasy, thanks for replying!

As for the dryness, I don't have that (yet!) but that's not really an issue for us. As I said, back in the day I never really found vaginal sex uncomfortable or anything it's just that I could take or leave it and I could never actually come from it. My perfect combination is clitoral stimulation and anal penetration that just does the trick way more than just clitoral stimulation and sometimes if I'm really turned on, the anal penetration will do the trick by itself. I do use toys as well sometimes for foreplay getting my ass warmed up or just for alonetime but the only vibe I have is a little bullet one for my clit.

Nice to hear you guys are anal only too. It's not something that would bother me if we were the only couple in the world like this but it is nice to hear about others. and it is great that anal is a way of keeping your sex life going - such an important lesson!

 

By the way, would you recommend that swept away film, is there mention of anal in it?

 

Yeah, anal only girls are the best. I'm fortunate to be married to one!

I have a serious anal only fetish and with earlier girlfriends I always would try and steer them to anal only sex after I had persuaded them to go anal for me. With my now wife, I just had a little sixth sense about her and the very first time we had sex I went straight to anal with her and we haven't looked back since. In all the time we've been together, we've only ever had anal and oral sex and don't do vaginal at all. For me it's a kink thing as well as a physical and visual thing - I just like the sensation of her butthole around my cock and I love to be able to look at her pussy but I also like the submissive connotations too, that it's a "secondary" type of sex. Someone wrote about about "wasting the pussy" and I get that. For her, her main thing is that it's a submissive thing but turns out she can have quite powerful orgasms when I'm in her ass and she says she's never come like this with her previous boyfriend from "normal" sex.

 

You lucky bastard! I'd give anything to be married to an anal whore like your wife. I wonder what that "sixth sense" is, but I find that if a girl in some way draws attention to her butt (e.g., the clothes she wears, a tattoo on her lower back, the pictures she takes which features her ass), she most likely likes anal. Even though you cannot have children through anal sex, think of all the money you save! You can afford to travel to Italy every summer and have rough sex in her anal canals while overlooking the canals of Venice in your hotel room.

In the Backdoor Man's world, the pussy is the wrong hole. We love anal whores!

 

Heh heh, I like your style "pussy is the wrong hole", nice slogan!

As for the sixth sense, it wasn't anything specifically ass orientated. She's a great gal, real sweet a real "nice girl" or so you'd think but she has a kinda hidden "dirty girl" side that I picked up on and when I "jokingly" suggested I'd have to spank her ass, I could see her eyes light up for a second, just enough of a glimpse that let me know she'd be up for whatever I had planned for her later which ended up including spanking her ass and the straight-to-anal no-pussy sex

 

Yes, there is anal in it, on a beach no less!
It is also a very funny film.

Also check out Last Tango in Paris for the scene where Marlon Brando asks Maria Schneider to bring along the butter on her way in from the kitchen

 

Nice to hear you guys are anal only too. It's not something that would bother me if we were the only couple in the world like this but it is nice to hear about others. and it is great that anal is a way of keeping your sex life going - such an important lesson![/QUOTE]

It's funny how some people think anal sex is degrading to a woman or shows some sort of dominance fetish on the man's part.
I got into anal sex with women because I love women and I especially love to give them orgasmic sex.
I became aware as I matured as a lover, (not until I was in my 30's), that most women never had an orgasm during sex.
However when I finally tried anal sex my lovers would almost always have tremendous orgasms with just a little clitoral stimulation.
With anal it is much easier for either partner to reach down and stimulate the clit during sex.

It's too bad that so much anal porn is such misogynistic crap.
ATM does not turn me on at all but I enjoy seeing a loving couple having great orgasmic anal sex.
Maybe I'm just old fashioned?

 

Nowhere near as bad that most mainstream media outside porn is such feminist crap.

We love anal whores!

 

no..you are from the romantic school )) i am too ))