Anal sex for heterosexuals

Dipwad???? Wow. Anyway I was just responding to the fact that he was acting like the idea of anal sex was the center of the controversy when the major focus is obviously her age. What kind of sex shouldn't matter.

 

This is a REALLLLY weird question.. never knew questions about sexual intercourse could be so philosophical..

 

You are correct. The word of the day is "dipwad".

 

i am bi and there is nothing better than being bum very hard

 

if you can't figure out what anal sex is, how do you get dressed in the morning? does someone else dress you?

 

wow, i guess asking for opinions on something makes me mentally inept. imagine that. it astonishes me the insensitive, prickish, immature, and totally uncalled for remarks on this site sometimes. good Lord.

by the way, "prometheous," did you know that your "name" is spelled prometheus? or is that quite beyond getting dressed? dickweed.

and no, i know what anal sex is. i'm very well aware, i just wondered what OTHER people thought about it.

 

Actually, we think you're gay but attempted to cover up that fact by naming this thread "Anal sex for heterosexuals"

 

You want to tell me how to spell my name, and you don't know what anal sex is? And then you have the balls to call me "dickweed"? You must be quite the man, ha, ha.

 

Wow. First, let me say, it seems to me that several posters in this thread could seriously use a good round of anal....when done properly, you'll lose every ounce of stress in your body.


To answer the original question...Yes, I consider woman to man anal penetration to be sex, regardless of what implement is used, fingers, dildo, feeldoe, fist...it's all good. I consider sex to be any exchange between two (or more) partners of genital stimulation, penis-vagina, penis-anus, mouth-genitals, toy-genitals, etc, etc. I have orgasmed many times while giving it to my man with a strap-on, partly from the clitoral stimulation from the base on the strap-on (Vacu-lock), mostly from the passion and excitement of pleasing him so much. Prostate orgasm is amazing for him, just like g-spot orgasm is amazing for me! We are an adventurous pair, and we take turns pleasing each other...every time we make love. Sometimes...it will be for a whole night that one of us gets exactly what we want, and doesn't have to lift a finger if they so choose. For us, it's all about enjoying each other's bodies, minds, and orgasms, regardless of how said orgasm is brought about.

 

spoken like a mature individual. i agree totally. that's absolutely the way sex should go every time. tragic that so many people are too narrow-minded and insecure to let go and enjoy it without attaching silly meaning to it such as the determination of sexual orientation.

 

Ok, lol, strange post for sure! If your old lady likes to fuck you with a strap on, it don't mean your gay! tThink about all the shit you like to do to your chick.....if she get's off by strappin it on and fuckin you...let her it will only make sex that much more exciting for the both of you! Besides if you let her do that to you there's no way she'll be able to say shit the next time you want to do ANYTHING to her!

 

That's right girl, school these youth's!

 

I didn't vote. I'm too involved in pussy, so my vote would only be a guess. Doesn't seem a problem, though.

 

Wow I was looking for how to report this guy until I saw he was already banned.

I experimented with this stuff myself, but then a girl I was dating turned out to be a psycho bitch and besides stealing money from my bank, commiting credit fraud on me, and kicking me out of our house so she could fuck someone else, she also told everyone we know what we tried.

So I pretty much hate her, won't risk it again, and despise people who judge others for it.

 

Wow, that sucks lolcopter. I promise we're not all psycho bitches though! If you liked it, you shouldn't let one crazy chick ruin it for you.

 

I have definately had some bad luck with women. I recently starting dating again and come to find out the new girl I just took a chance with was full of lies and sneaking around on me.

I swear I'm not stupid or paranoid and creating this stuff for myself. It's really annoying to keep having this happening to me. My situation makes me want to be the kind of guy who goes out and uses women then never calls them again, just as a sort of premptive strike to protect myself. I am not cold hearted however, and I guess I'll just keep putting up with this kind of stuff until I can find someone who is truly honest and trustworthy. I just hope to not become "damaged goods" in the meantime or decide to mistrust all women. I know there's some good ones out there somewhere.

 

Y'know, everyone has a type that they seem to end up with. For instance, I always end up with guys who are really outgoing; it's not like I seek them out, I guess it's just what I'm subconsciously attracted to. And we've all known a girl or two who can't stop falling in love with abusive guys, unfortunately.

It sounds like maybe, subconsciously, you're attracted to a specific type of girl...and it's a type who's a little crazy. Which sucks for you, obviously. But it's the only thing I can think of to explain your horrible luck with women - because the vast majority of us are not crazy and do not want to sleep around. Unfortunately (and who knows why? I'm not a shrink) your brain is steering you toward some unfortunate choices.

Maybe you should try dating someone as different as you can imagine from your usual type? It might be easier to do that on a dating site or something. I don't know - it's probably awfully hard to change the type of person you're attracted to - but you seem like a sweet guy and it bums me out to imagine that you're going to keep dating psycho sluts until you finally learn to hate all women.

 

It bums me out too!

A little more about me: You either love me or you hate me. Most people don't know me, although I meet hundreds of people in my line of work. You could say I have a really high outer wall, and a really low inner wall. It's hard for me to become friends with people - I am a private individual, and I am by no means welcoming or outgoing. I also have a really low inner wall, however. Once you are in, you're in. I'll spend all of my energy on you if need be and I'll trust you to be my friend in all situations. I am a good judge of character with my friends and I believe that the 10 or so people I am close with would never let me down, and they know I would do the same for them.

Unfortunately, that judge of character just isn't carrying over to the women I talk to. When I analyze it I think that it may be that my tendency to keep to myself that causes me to usually end up with wild girls - because they are a lot more likely to come after me initially, and thereby aren't eliminated naturally just because I don't hit on them: which I never hit on women as strange as that sounds. It may be a little bit out of nervousness but I think it's mostly just out of the habit of never having done so in the past.

We all have the one that got away. Well my first girlfriend / love / sexual partner was that one for me. She also hit on me first and was the more outgoing (by far) of the two of us. She was a virgin and a good girl. That was in the high school and early college years and it turns out that now that I am this age the only girls who are good, outgoing, and not deceitful are all in relationships or married. The rest aren't into guys who won't pursue them. It's not that I won't it's that I want to know the girl before I know if I'm interested so as to not build something on false pretenses. Of course most of the time that I do get to know a girl and find out I might be interested, we're well into the friend trench.

Oh well. I'm really done complaining. Maybe I'll post in the personals section.

 

Yeah, why don't you post in the personals section? And once you've done that, I think you should hit up a dating site. It'd let you approach women yourself, which you're shy to do in person (like loads and loads of really nice guys). Everyone uses dating sites these days - it's not like there are only losers there. And it would also help you with that "Too late, now we're friends" problem - also which TONS of really nice guys have - because you're on a dating site, so you're starting off in relationship mode automatically.

Funny, I'm exactly the opposite. I have a low outer wall and a really high inner one.

Edit: ps I think it's hilarious that the "Anal sex" thread has been totally derailed by relationship talk. Usually it's the relationship threads that end up being derailed by sex talk! So anyway...um, my boyfriend fucked me up the ass this morning and it was terrific.