Anal sex for heterosexuals

umm... to answer the original question... which i think is pretty interesting... i wouldn't classify fingers or toys separate from the body as anal sex, but i could include a strap on or feeldoe. the only problem would be with the need to be specific when talking about stds because being fucked by a strap-on is a lot different than being fucked by a condom-less cock. but really for me labeling it isn't a big issue

 

Oh Jesus Christ.................
Blah blah FucKing blah. Shut up already!

 

Uhm..... No?

Oh, and good job on backing out of your poorly founded argument with childish curses.
If you can't talk with the adults, don't butt in on the conversation, hm?

 

Good. You kept your response to two little words. Feels nice, doesn't it?

 

Refresh your page, dearie.

 

What in God's name are you talking about? Do you even know what you may have done or said on a day to day basis or is it all just a blur for you?

So am I butting IN or ON the conversation? Your sentence structure sucks. Go to college and quit wasting your life at Burger King.

 

It doesn't mean that if you like anal that you're gay.
I know gay people who don't like anal...does it make them heterosexual?
And in my book gay means being attracted to the same sex as yourself.
being gay has nothing to do with anal!

ps: one more thing: it is butting in on a conversation. don't tell people to stop doing what you do yourself!

 

If I may offer my two cents worth!

Anything that brings about sexual plaasure is sex, bottom line, excuse the pun. If you derive pleasure from anal stimulation it is anal sex.

Anal sex has absolutely nothing to do with being homosexual. Honosexuality is purely the the expression of love for one of the same gender. As, has been already stated, some gay men don't like anal and many, many straight women do it must obviously have nothing to do with one's affectional preferences.

It is all about what feels good, and anal feels so good. I love it when my gf gives it to me hard and long just like she likes to have it. We both cum hard, she from the stimulation of the strap-on against her clit, I, well for obvious reasons. We even figured out a way that she can have double penetration while she is dong me. All the aspects: psychological, emotional, and physical are wrapped up in good anal play. It also involves a trememdous amunt of trust, communication and intimacy.

 

A simple query of dictionary.com will produce the following result:

het·er·o·sex·u·al·i·ty noun sexual feeling or behavior directed toward a person or persons of the opposite sex.
[Origin: 1895–1900; hetero- + sexuality]

Dictionary.com Unabridged (v 1.1)
Based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2006.
Now, if a woman is giving a man anal sex, it is a sexual act perpetrated by a female toward a male.

As to why a woman would give a man anal sex, that is an easy point to make. The prostate is instrumental in producing an orgasm. In fact, men who have a prostatectomy often are unable to orgasm afterward. Furthermore, manual stimulation of the prostate initiates a sequence of events that greatly increases the intensity of an orgasm. In short, stimulation of the prostate produces a better orgasm.

To moLatoff:

No one here is telling you that you should engage in anal sex. In fact, it would be best if you didn't; hospital psych wards are already over-encumbered without the likes of you after you have a breakdown induced by an anal experience.

You have no authority to speak on the subject since you have no experience to back up your point of view. Your arguments are constructed from a priori assertions whose premises are faulty and unsupported with fact or evidence.

Personal attacks are usually an indication that the person making them knows they are losing an argument. People tend to attack their opponent instead of argue the facts because they think they can shift the focus onto a debate they believe they can win. Unfortunate for you, this tactic is utterly transparent and ineffective. All you have accomplished by this is that you have pointed out to us good thinkers that your point is invalid.

Also, the phrase "butting in on a conversation" is an expression. Furthermore, it is a grammatically well formed sentence.

 

What if a woman is the only partner in the relationship giving anal? If there are men who love to give anal to their girlfriends but refuse to recieve it then I'd expect similair situations to exist for the women of a relationship no?

Where I lvie and the people I know, most women wouldn't dare do anal unless they got the chance to do it to their bfs first, which brings up the arguement, who goes first? Maybe this is a bit off topic but what if a guy let his girlfriend fuck him and then she refused to get it back?

 

I guess then he got screwed...

If you can't thrust your gf with these kind of things then why should she be you girlfriend? I'd leave her...not because she doesn't want anal but because she lied to me

 

I don't really understand your question. There are undoubtedly woman who give but do not receive anal in a heterosexual relationship. I don't know of any examples from personal experience, but people do much wierder things. Some guys simply aren't into giving anal sex but perhaps they still enjoy receiving.

If she agreed that he would get his opportunity to give her anal then she's just dishonest. It would be much like a girl proposing to exchange oral sex and then refusing to give a blowjob after the guy already ate her out.

 

I am in complete and utter agreement with analcuriosity. I don't really believe in a ," I'll let you do me if you let me do you", relationship anyway. I love to do whatever she might want me to do to please her and she dosen't have to do a damn thing. Of course, paradoxically, this is a two way street as well.
The most imprtant aspects of great anal sex are trust and communication. So, if promises are made and then broken, it would seem to me, that there is a lack of both trust and communication. Not only should there be absolutely no anal sex, but no relationship either. JMHO
The prostate is now reffered to as the "p spot", the male version of the G spot. If you guys know what the G spot does for women, then you have some idea of what the P spot does for a man. Additionally, The nerve bundles that wrap around the pelvic floor, in both male and female, are some of the densest in the body. So, a man can experience some of the same sensations a womam experiences through penetration. Combine this whith penetration at the right angle, never straight in always somewhat pointed towars the navel, and a guy can have an orgasm that will literally cause one to pass out.
Good anal can never be rushed into, and should always ALWAYS be accompannied by enough lube to float a boat, Seroiusly. It should never ever hurt, if it hurts you are doing something very wrong! Oh, more lube, when you think there is plenty add more, good stuff too!
Over time, months almost a year, my gf and i have built up to large toys, even tried fisting but i guess our hips are two small, but it took time , patience and practise, can you think of anything more fun to have to work at.
Check out the better toy stores, they have a huge market for anal toys for both men an women. Another great aite is Tristan Torminos puckerup.com. She also worte a best selling book, "The Ultimate Guide to Anal Sex for Women. She is doing everything in her power to remove the stigma , that the ignorant few still seem to want to embrace, attached to anal sex. She also produced the videos "Bend Over Boyfriend I&II". Check em out

 

I would really strongly suggest you experiment on yourself first, get to knonw yourself before you go sharing it with others. Lots of lube, not spit, first a little massage around the rosebud to loosen and relax, then just a portion of a finger. As you feel yourself loosen up and relax go as far as you are comfortable going. There should be absolutely no pain. Do this with yourself first though, guys at his age have this tendency to rush in like a bull in a china shop. This is what spoils anal fun for many many women. It is something you need to work into gradually, once you do you will love it!

 

Just do it!

 

Why do you have a fiance at 16 years old? What do your parents say about that? Would they be horribly disappointed in you for contemplating anal sex?

 

who cares?

 

Parents should never be concerned with one of their children being interested in anal sex, because it is none of their business. She should however be very careful if she is sexually active at a young age like that and her parents could get involved in that issue. And a fiance at 16? That will be a long and difficult engagement to stay together through.

 

She's 16YO you dipwad! Of course it's her parents should be concerned.