I wouldn't go so far as calling the question idiotic.. it's a reflection of how folks look in places other than themselves to derive their self image. I had a little fun with bella kinda lampooning the whole thing... I know I'm in good shape- I don't need anyone, friends, co-workers, family or Madison Ave telling me anything different... and the 15 year old thread starter shouldn't be worrying about whether or not he's fat.
I know you were just having fun. And I really didn't mean the OP was an idiot but the question.... seriously? Of course that's not "fat".... it's actually quite sad that society leads people to ask questions like that.
If you have to ask, then the answer is probably "No!" I'm sure you're perfect, my friend. In fact, everyone in here is perfect. I love you guys.
Yeah, I admire the hell out of that, but am not attracted to it. I think it's a tactile thing; Guys are so hard all over and having a part of them that is soft is sooooo comforting. But I am sure the majority of women lovet hat you take such good care of yourself.
I'm the EXACT same height as you, Ryan. Bella... Personally I agree. Stinkfoot's body is hot but I love the comfort of a little bit of extra weight to hold onto myself. That is nice. I've always been like that.
i think it is utterly inane to call every ounce over some immaginary optimal weight obesity. of course if you're two or three TIMES your optimal weight, that's a different matter, and one well worth considering doing something about. but a well padded ten to fifteen percent over is nothing to loose sleep about, and may even be as or more attractive then pretentious skinnyness, especialy if the latter starts to show us as stress severity in the face. which it all too frequently, and in fewer years then is often credited, does. =^^= .../\...