thanx dan. mike and i are still together, but even when i moved in with him i didn't plan on living with him forever and now is my chance to be able to tottaly support myself and be independant. Its also cuz of his check. i am not in school anymore so i'm working full time. so i have to either get off his check or let them take 75% of everything i make!!! so i'm gonna get my own place like planned and make the money that i can.