the old enough to take responcibility fotr a child should 1 ovccur is the only sensable answer, not saying old enough to intentionaly want a child,m but, if your 15 having sex u might end up 15 with a baby to care for.. if your not fully prepared for that if it happens, then u shouldnt be having sex ofcourse that applies to older guys too who dont take responcibilitry,
well, don't push it. i lost my virginity when i was 12. but i was ready. and i never sleep with someone if they push it. it ruins the whole sex experience that way. just let it happen and it will.
Good. Maybe one of the pockets of resistance in the US that doesn't want to have teenage pregencies? Such places should be cherished.
i don't think most people under 18 should be having sex. Hence, i say most. Most of them are not mature enough to handle the resposibility of potential outcomes.
I lost my virginty at 19 because I wanted to do it only if I felt ready and if I really liked and trusted the guy I was with and it was well worth it. My sister (who is 1 year younger than me) lost hers when she was 14 because she just wanted to get it over with and she didn't have any regrets afterwards. My best friend is still a virgin at 24 because she wants to save her virginity to the guy she will marry. What I am trying to point out is that it all depends on the girl, you can't say ALL girls are ready for sex when they turn 16 or 18 or 20. And maybe some of them are ready for sex, they just don't want to have it with you.
^^thats what i did and i really regret it, she was ugly and fat, but she was older and sluttier than me. and the next girl i was with a couple of months later was soooo much sexier, i wish i had waited.
I had sex when I was 16 and to a guy that was sweet but not the one I should've lost it to. I wish I lost it sooner...I chose 16 so that people wouldn't say I was a slut or that I wasn't ready. To be honest, I was ready at ten or twelve. Just get in a good relationship and just go with the flow. Don't stress it, girls hate that.
What an up tight dick you are. The guy who started this thread may have been a little horny but what the fuck? Are we still in the motherfucking 1950's or something? It makes no sense that we live in a society where adventurous guys are virrile "cool" and adventurous females are filthy whores. At fifteen years of age, a female (like a male, believe it or not!) has the ability to make important decisions: Sure, she can't make them as good as a fully grown woman, but any decent parenting and sex ed will let a girl know the risks. It's overprotective fathers like you that shelter girls into boring, innocent nothings with no minds or opinions of their own... I've seen girls raised under this "sheltered and innocent" doctrine... It's the reason I can't find a cool girl- They're all mentally decimated by their family and their society. And when I DO meet a good girl, I've always got to live in fear of some dickweed father of hers like you... Second guessing everything I do and watching me like I'm some kind of rapist or I'm defiling his property. I'm a good guy, and I'm a decent fucking person. I don't need to be treated like a suspect. If your girl loses her virginity past thirteen: A) Hope she's made the right decisison B) If you know the guy and he's cool, just be greatful she found a nice boy I feel bad for your daughter... I totally do. Rather than respect her enough to face the world you take your fears of wha twill happen to her and crush her freedom. IDK, I'd never have a kid because I think life is cruel, but if i had a daughter id just have some respect for her space, especially by 14... Of course id be a terrified S.O.B. when she doesnt call, maybe ground her when she breaks the rules (IE: coming home past 10:30 or so) but id have some respect for her dignity... sheesh. And for thoseo f u who think i think girls should have sex by 14-15, i dont. Ii think a girl should have sex when she's mature and ready (past 13)
Here's the deal Chronic from an older male. I don't have a daughter but I do have a lot of years of wisdom. Most younger people meaning under 14-18 can handle sex no problem, but what they can not handle about 99% of the time is the results of sex. There are a lot of things that the young males do not or can not deal with if something goes wrong, unless the parents decide to come after you and get a DNA test then you or your parents will pay financially for 18 years, by law. What kind of a financial position are you in at 14-18 years old? Not a good one for sure. Do you want to be forced by a judge to pay child support? Think of how many hours you will have to work and what it would do to your future. The next time you decide to have sex think about this fact, that this female you are about to mount could be the mother of your child, if you can live with that then everything is a go and your ready to get busy. I have seen many of my stupid ass friends over the years father multiple children and have financial ties up the ass for 18 years and more. Also not to mention the father not being their when they needed them. Fathers care about their daughters, but they also care about the burden they will have to carry financially and emotionally if some young buck dumps his nut and doesn't think about the results, until it is to late. And if you think birth control works like the percentages they publish.....LOL! NOT! I know at least 4 or 5 people personally that got pregnant when on the pill and/or using a rubber, so don't BS yourself there are risks. Remember what I said because it will stick with you from now on...Why? because someone said the same thing to me when I was thinking with my dick most of the time and it really changed my world. Good luck Bro and be careful. RT
i started having sex before i was ready to care for a child. i say use a condom, and dont do anything that YOU will regret.
How's that good advice? That's common sense. That's like me being complimented for saying don't cross the street before looking both ways! Good advice is making a point, not tossing in the obvious.
