Hm... I've barely an input into this topic... except that I'm 18 (my b-day was on the 15th of this month) and the man I love is 49... so what's the age difference? Neither he or I really care what people think. I'll be moving in w/ him sometimes in Sept. I am so excited.
why is it such a big deal when younger people are in relationships with a bit of an age different, but when older people have the same kinds of relationships, it's no big deal?
Love Doesnt Age, Neither Does Your Soul. So As Long As you Two Are Happy With Each Other And Its Legal I Wish You The Best. --kidd--
Wooooow!.. It's good to see other ppl who aren't uncomfortable with age, for me it's a number and why dwell on something you can't control? There's no point and it's a real waste of time.. Btw, Happy Birthday and good luck!
Well, here we are. Married, 20 years between us, and both really happy with it. we both love each other, have a fucking great sex life and no probs! She even gets on with my kids! Whats the problem?
To a certain extent age is just a number. It depends on the person and their maturity level and their health. Many times a 21 year old woman iis more mature than a 30 year old male in many ways, and a 50 year old man who's young at heart and healthy can identify with a 25 or 30 year old woman. Then you figure in the sexual aspect of the ages and it gets even more interesting.
When I was much younger I dated older women, now being in my early 60’s I still like women around my age, but the only problem is that women around my age have very low sex drives while I still can perform sexually. I always believe that dating young is overrated!
As long as you know where the other person is IN LIFE,I dont think an age matters.. Love is beautiful
Perhaps it's just me, but the older I get, the more I tend to gravitate toward people my own age. I have young friends, and there is a bit of an uncrossable gulf between us. I couldn't imagine trying to forge a relationship with someone who was born when I was in college. I need someone with a comparable lifestyle with similar life experiences. I find that easier in people of my own generation. I don't want to judge May December romances, but they're definitely not for me.
I had a long term relationship with a woman some 10 years older than I. She was a boatload of fun in and out of the sack. She taught me everything I needed to know about sex and other life issues as well. The trouble was with me being in my early 20's I wanted to explore the world while she had had enough and wished to be domestic. I could see our age difference affecting family building, our senior years, even present wants and desires so I broke it off.
At 63 my wife and fb are both 62 and my fwb is 53. Our sexual activities are still hot and heavy and I believe a key is a healthy lifestyle and positive attitude. I am fortunate to have encounters with ladies in their 40s and few younger from time to time. These experiences are primarily for mutual satisfaction with no strings. We enjoy our conversations and experiences and learning from each other. Younger women and I mean no younger than 30 want to learn more about sex and life in general so the time we spend together is mutually rewarding and fun
In my observation over the years, there are three things a younger woman considers before dating a much older guy. 1. His main activity in bed will be sleeping. 2. His bank balance. 3. The value of his property when he pops his clogs.
The few females I have truly connected with: I did not / do not know their exact age because I wasn't concerned about it.