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Abstinence.

Discussion in 'Random Thoughts' started by lode, Jan 31, 2008.

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  1. polecat

    polecat Weerd

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    Sex can Wait....Masturbate!
     
    polecat, Feb 1, 2008
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  3. lode

    lode Banned

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    The abstinence crowds against that too.

    I dunno why. I've thought about going pro.
     
    lode, Feb 1, 2008
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  5. Shane99X

    Shane99X Senior Member

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    masterbation? they don't like masterbation? wtf? so they tell them not to have sex AND not to masterbate and they expect that to actually work? damn. Can't that injure you are something?

    bet those bedsheets get washed a lot.
     
    Shane99X, Feb 1, 2008
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  7. mamaKCita

    mamaKCita fucking stupid.

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    i never really understood sexual shame or waiting. i never understood what the big deal is. i've never made a sexual decision that i've regretted, and i've never been harmed. no, i don't fuck everyone who crosses my path, nor do i want to. but i never got why love and sex HAVE TO BE so entwined in order to not feel bad about a basic human physical communion.
     
    mamaKCita, Feb 1, 2008
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  9. RELAYER

    RELAYER mādhyamaka

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    At least in my case, it's a matter of how Im living my life. If I am to have sex with someone, I cant help but become very emotional about the person because I've only had sex with two girls and both only because I was already in a serious relationship with them before it happened. I cant live with myself if I am having sex with someone just for pleasure, but that's just how I was raised and what my lifestyle feels comfortable as. I see where your coming from of course, I just cant have that mentality, even if I wanted to! :tongue:
     
    RELAYER, Feb 1, 2008
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  11. Allonym

    Allonym cheesecake slut

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    ive made sexual decisions i regretted, but they were more based out of relationship decisions that i shouldnt have made than anythign else.... so like some clever person mentioned earlier, relationship is pretty integral for most folks to make healthy sexual decisions
     
    Allonym, Feb 1, 2008
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  13. praxiskepsis

    praxiskepsis ha!

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    Sick...
     
    praxiskepsis, Feb 1, 2008
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  15. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    so i can book a week stay down with you then?

    :drool:
     
    fitzy21, Feb 1, 2008
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