A Girl Has Never Been Able To Bj Me To Completion?

Great reply, Andy.

I'm the opposite. The only place I ever want hands are on my balls - rarely on my shaft. For me, watching and feeling a woman use her mouth in any and every variation to make me cum in her mouth ALWAYS gets me off.

 

That’s great. In my case maybe just a bit more than a handful of women were able to give me a blowjob to completion without hands.
Even someone who is pretty good at it. Some of them had an easy task because I was very aroused when the oral started

 

I just don't understand someone not being able to cum from a BJ - that's what I want to do most..... Most of the time I am trying not to cum too quickly so I can just enjoy it longer. So, give your self a break from porn and stimulation for a few days. Sit down with her, have a few drinks or a smoke to get loose, have a few laughs, talk dirty, maybe watch some porn together and then lie back and let her suck you off. Show her what and where feels the best and don't hold back - how is she supposed to know what works otherwise. "Like lick it here, hold it like this, move your hand like this, hold my balls, touch my butt, suck the head, put it deep, etc.."..... Once she has you going, tell her to continue doing just that and not stop, just close your eyes, feel it build and let it happen. She wants you to cum in her mouth. Maybe your hang up is feeling that it's not pleasurable to her and she won't like it. But that's not true, she wants to do it, and knows and wants the end result, and most likely she will feel very fulfilled in getting you off. At first, keep your eyes closed until you're done so you don't see her reaction - then look at her success. After you do it a few times, it's second nature just to let go. Trust me, I was crazy about one of my first girlfriends and thought it would be so degrading to her to cum in her mouth, she was too good for that, etc, until one time she just held on to me until I let it go....and that was that...she really liked it. It became a regular event we both really enjoyed. Too bad she turned out to be crazy.....

 

@Twogigahz - I've never had a problem cumming in a woman's mouth from head. What I've learned over the years is that each woman has their own "thing" I connect with when getting head. It is always their idiosyncratic look or desire to have my dick in their mouth. It could be the color of her nails. It could be the way her lips look when sucking my head. It could be the way she keeps her eyes fixated on my eyes as she bob's up and down or licks it. There is always something I addition to the act that allows me to explode.

For the men not able to cum from head, find that connection in addition to the act itself! My wife always looks at me as I'm watching her and it drives me crazy! I want nothing more than to fill her mouth with my nectar.

I had an ex that used to "whine" for me to cum in her mouth as she was sucking my dick. It was as if she was talking to my dick and I wasn't there. Drove me crazy! Women have always provided me with their "thing" that adds to the experience.

 

It always works for me. Always...I rue the day that it doesn't........

 

Honestly, I love getting head but also find that although it feels amazing and gets me close, it takes quite a while and usually a helping hand to push me over. Not because it doesn't feel as good (cos it does feel incredible) but it just doesn't quite tip the balance... Maybe it's less pressure pressing on me or something, dunno. I don't imagine it's that unusual tho, I always end up cutting it short to do other stuff anyway

 

Never have I ejaculated from oral sex. I don't care that I haven't. It's not an issue with me. I thoroughly love getting a BJ as part of having sex. The sight of my cock being engulfed by her mouth. The look she gives me as she descends down the shaft. The feeling of the head nesting along the back of her throat followed by her tongue sliding across the glans as I extract it. These are all fantastic sensations that I feel but to go over the top to orgasm and ejaculation just doesn't happen. I can be at the height of excitement and ready to blow but it subsides after a while. It may be the direction of stimulation. the lack of speed over the head, or that my whole cockhead isn't fully in contact within her mouth. I don't know. Whatever the reason I don't care.

 

In 15 years of marriage my first wife only made me cum a couple of times from a blowjob. I loved her and thought it was disgusting to cum in her mouth. After our divorce and discovering my bisexuaity, I decided there was nothing wrong with cumming in a mouth. Second wife got me off every time she blew me..