69 position and not reaching orgasm

I like 69 and almost always get off that way. Usually my husband doesn't

 

I've always been able to cum during 69, probably because her orgasm is trigging mine.
most of the times I just "wait" for her, and when I feel her moans and her pussy pulsating, I get off.. so yes with simultaneous orgasm too.

you could try separate stimulation till you are both very horny and close and than try with 69, this will help for sue to let go