I see open gym showers as a great equalizer. It's an opportunity to shed your armor and openly admit you are just another human being engaging in...
By all accounts, I was born a nudist. Wasn't wearing anything, and totally unashamed. Still tend to be that way...
My best MM experiences have been with men who are not hung up on proving to themselves and others that they are straight. It is so much easier to...
Not wishful thinking in all cases. Integrated Pest Management specialists in my area can predict how quickly some field crop pests will get...
It is getting more uptight in the USA. But as the columnist Dan Savage once observed, "Canada got the French, Australia got the convicts, and we...
With the late frosts this year in southern Arizona, I have a few tomato vines that keep wanting to come back. But, I also have a leaf hopper...
Pruning the grape vines will start soon. The garden is resting in a silent state, except for the sounds of a few crows and dead leaves rustling...
Well, I think it's helpful to consider the definition of "romance". It has some roots in the medieval concepts of chivalry, and often has been...
To me, it's enough to find relationships with mutual respect and great sex. The whole romance thing is typically an idealized myth that is almost...
My garden is done for the year, also. Time to take all the dead plants to the compost pile and mix them with horse manure. The earliest...
Yes, I started out being mostly genital-focused with other men, but all along, I only wanted to sexually interact with men who seemed considerate...
Even if a straight guy is fascinated with his own cock, you could say he has a cock fetish. Those that extend this fetish to other men become (by...
I've been bi for my whole adult life, starting in my early 20s. But the thing that changed in my senior years is that I now want to have a bi...
It's been in the 80s here in the desert. I spent much of the afternoon naked outdoors, harvesting tomatoes and preparing for the first killing...
Well, with that said, and based on the challenges you described in your opening post, I feel good knowing that you are becoming more empathetic...
I've had two very long term relationships with women, and in the same time frame I've had about a dozen short-term sexual relationships with men....
Once I was welcomed into a situation as the "third guy". This took place at a remote natural pool in Colorado that was fed with hot spring water....
This year, Gambel's quail attacked my young bean plants. I had to replant inside a bird exclosure. Next year, I'll put some sort of hoop...
Picking the pods is the most time-consuming part. Shelling the pods goes quickly. I put the harvested pods in large paper bags, and leave the...
I always grow my own dry beans each year, and it is once again time for that harvest. Two 40-foot rows of tepary beans provides enough for...
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