Thanks, MatthewShane, and yeah it's okay -- actually I did get traumatized a lot growing up but it hardly matters, I'm cheerful about it now :)...
Thank you, Bella. I know that a lot of it has to do with me too -- I'm pretty timid to go out there looking for men, have taught myself not to...
I saw threads on here with similar ideas, so I don't feel so odd any more! My experience with sex has been: I am a disposable commodity and men...
He's sort of new ... we've known each other for six months and have been trying this odd kind of back-and-forth for five. He's not so much...
I've thought that too, but he's so damn AWKWARD it's like trying to open a reluctant clam. Or maybe like trying to coax a tiger out of a cage....
Well, yes. That does make sense. I guess I know that he DOES govern his own emotions ... and he knows he does ... but he often will claim out...
You're right, he does have really big self-esteem problems. He constantly tells me he thinks he is too dirty for me, etc etc, and the "slut"...
As far as I know, he doesn't watch porn ... I think human nakedness secretly embarrasses him. And when I have shown him, he has seemed to like it...
Right now I am with a very unusual fellow that I can't quite understand. He's a very sweet guy, with a gentlemanly side (for example, once when...
Good point. He is pretty fragile, a great deal more delicate than I am in almost every way (shyer, more vulnerable, etc), but he can be a mean...
He's interested and he asks me, he just gets embarrassed that it doesn't just "happen" ; says later he feels like an inadequate lover because he...
My current lover is a few years older but was not very experienced before me, and does not really do the whole "kiss for a while, touch, and THEN...
Hey Fex. I'm a girl who's all give. Bite that off and suck on it. ;) Cowboy -- I respect the fact that you are stating your opinions. And of...
Well, the part that I didn't mention for fear of making the thread too long, is that I DID communicate with each of them beforehand, I DID get to...
Well gee, Illumin. You must have a real George Bushian, Adolf Hitlerian sense of a decent self-respecting white or asian man. Good job for being a...
Okay, fex, I agree with you mostly about polyamoury. But I do side with lakeoffire because a lot of men (such as, apparently, her former...
Of my previous three boyfriends (if you can call them that) #1 got pissed when I wouldn't have sex with him, so, when I met #2, I had sex with him...
This is why monogamy is bad. Being in a committed relationship gives people way too much control over one another. They start thinking they own...
... well, it's a long story. We met at work and he IM'ed me later to say he really had a crush on me. (He's 24, very intelligent but really shy...
Nobody's leading anyone else on. :) I always do analyze things way too much, because I DON'T want anyone to get hurt -- especially the other...
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