First Encounters

Discussion in 'Bi Sex Discussions' started by KW67, Jun 25, 2019.

  1. timetoexploreithink

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    My first experience was surfing and started texting a guy on sniffles of all places. He sent me his address and told me the front door was unlocked.
    I walked it wearing shorts, no underwear, t shirt and flip flops. He pulled my shorts down and went to work. First ever bi experience.
    If I was to do it over again I would have done stayed and continued with more man on man fun.
     
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  2. JS420

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    So would I!!!!!
     
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  3. Lovnflman

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    Man….. that was one hell of a first time!
     
  4. KDaddy23

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    I've found that when a first-timer realizes that, hey, this isn't as bad as everyone says it is, it's on like you wouldn't believe. Seriously, who the fuck knew that sucking cock with a guy could be so goddamned good?
     
  5. thepapasmurph

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    The thing is - a lot of guys are somehow under the impression that they should not want to enjoy sucking a man's cock, or should they want him to suck theirs... to me, it was something I was curious about all through school. Changing clothes after PE class, in the locker room I was curious as hell as I watched naked guys walk to the shower or horseplay with one another. When I finally had the opportunity to taste and feel a cock, it was the most natural thing. No hesitation. It's like losing your virginity. It is totally natural. So, if you are curious, go for it. You'll see for yourself how natural it feels.
     
  6. KDaddy23

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    In the many first encounters that I've either participated in or "counselled" the first timer, the biggest concern other than the usual "what will everyone think and say about me if I do this" thing is... what is it like? There's always been this disconnect where guys who've had a woman blow them gets it into their head that it's very different when a guy does it and, yes, thepapasmurph said it right when he said that guys are, indeed, under the impression that they should not ever want to do with a guy (one way or the other or both, heh, heh) and if they do it, they're not supposed to like it, they must be a closet homosexual, the usual dumb shit that's been around since societies started freaking out about this..

    The psychological mindfucking guys get about this can be potent enough to make guys who are very curious about this change their minds about actually doing it. As I've said time and time again, there's a reason why so many men who have (a) let a guy blow them and/or (b) blown another guy have said that they now can't understand (c) why it took them so long to do this, (d) what they were afraid of and (e) who the fuck knew this was so fucking good and, often (f) I've had guys tell me that I suck dick better than any woman who has blown them.

    Once they realize that (g) they didn't instantly come down with every STI/STD known to mankind and (h) they didn't instantly become gay, many a man has said that they've felt like a great weight had been lifted from them. It's been rare that I've told a guy looking for his first time to... not do anything about this until they've gotten their head in the right place; some guys shouldn't take the plunge and no matter how badly they feel the need to do it. That's not all guys, though and barring some real earth-shattering shit, if you've been thinking about having your first time with a cock, have at it. Be smart, be safe, don't procrastinate and do what you've been wanting to do.

    I won't tell if you won't.
     
  7. LowHangers

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    What takes place behind closed doors stays behind closed doors. I've told several first timers, look man, nobody knows I suck cock except for the guys who's cock I sucked so your secret is safe with me. If you enjoy it, we can certainly get together again to do so again, if you don't it's OK and we'll go on our separate ways. No harm, no foul and your secret is safe with me.
     
  8. KDaddy23

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    I wholeheartedly agree with this. I've told guys, "Look, the only way someone else is going to find out is if you tell them; besides, I don't know who you know! We gonna do this or what?" If I give my word that I won't tell, then I'm not telling because a man's word is his bond and if your word ain't worth a damn, that's a problem and one I don't want anything to do with.
     
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  9. Hornymike66

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    I had fantasized about sucking a cock for 30 years before finally doing it at age 48. I was nervous as hell, but as soon as his cock was in my mouth I knew I loved it and had really missed out on something special all those years! Making another man cum is such an amazing experience. And watching another man go down on my cock is pretty awesome, too!
     
  10. Couldbebetter

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    Ive recently started fantasizing about finding my wife with another man and joining in. Maybe after he cums in her id clean him off and clean her out. NEVER thought id have these kind of thoughts but I can say if I were to ever get divorced or become single I strongly think I would experiment. I like anal play and also Like sucking one of my dildos. Im actually working on setting an appointment for a massage with a gay masseuse in a nearby city. As far as I know its a 100% legit massage therapist but I guess if I were to have a scenario where my wife wasn't involved it would be something like im getting a massage and talking to the guy and the subject of sex comes up. He encourages me to open up and tell as much as id like. So I tell him about my love for anal and how big my dildo is. And how I also have a smaller dildo thats above average but not huge that I like to suck on and deepthroat. When I tell him how big it is he says it sounds like its about the same size as his dick. We chuckle a bit then curiosity gets the best of me and I ask him if I can see his cock. He drops his pants to reveal a very nice looking 7 inch cock. I say yea I could take that whole thing. He says something along the lines of how would you know, youve never had a real cock in your mouth. We banter a bit and finally he tells me to prove it. So I start sucking his dick and when I get it all down my throat he asks if I like it. I nod yes. He then asks if he can facefuck me. I again nod yes and he proceeds to facefuck me until he pulls out and cums on my face.
     
  11. Texman46

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    My first encounter was very early
     
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  12. Windman

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    I had had a fascination for men’s cocks for a long time, since puberty. But it wasn’t until my mid 40s that I acted on it. I was very nervous and second guessing the decision to move forward and meet a guy I had been chatting with online, but I forced myself to follow through with it.
    He sucked me first and honestly wasn’t good at it. In fact he was terrible, after he pinched my cock between his molars the second time I told him to stop. But I thought what the hell we were both naked his cock was hard. So I gave him a blowjob. I had told him it was my first time and he raved at how much of a natural I was. Several of us have said that the secrete to a good blowjob is enthusiasm. Well that I had. I loved it.
    As his swollen cock glided in and out of my mouth and I was experiencing the smoothness of his cock head on my tongue I was instantly hooked.
    I took my time enjoying what I was doing for him. And really him for me. I didn’t expect it would be as enjoyable as it was to be doing what I was.
    After about ten minutes I felt his cock head swell and get even harder right before he shot his load into my mouth. I could feel spurt after spurt splash against the roof of my mouth. I swallowed as he unloaded and licked the last little bit off the tip as he got soft again. He caught his breath and zipped up and left. After that first time my desire for it grew, this was something I wasn’t going to be able to ignore any more.
     
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  13. thepapasmurph

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    @Windman Exactly! The first time - the twentieth time - all good, all what I wanted. The thrill of bringing a man from soft, semi-soft to raging hardness in my mouth, due to my desire to please him, and in the process please myself... and then to hear him react verbally and feel his body react physically... and finally my reward - his orgasm. As you described - knowing by they way his cock is swelling and stiffening, I know I am almost there - it's something I cannot quite describe.
    I wonder what the physch would say? Why do I crave this and enjoy it so much?
     
  14. Windman

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    Papa I think it’s because as men and owners of cocks ourselves we have a great understanding of how good an expertly delivered blowjob feels.
    Once a man gets over the social stigma of sucking a man’s cock and that is no longer a derogatory notion it completely flips. I give great head. And honestly it’s a credit. Once a man feels what I can do for him he has no choice but to hold those skills in high regard. I play a cock with all the expertise of a world class flute player, and like a musician that takes the listener to another place, the giver of a great blowjob takes the receiver to another place and time stands still. Musicians get great joy in taking the listener on a melodic journey, an expert in fellatio takes one on a journey of sensation. And there is joy in guiding that journey.
     
  15. LowHangers

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    You are so right Windman. I can't tell you how many guys after I sucked them off and swallowing their load that said, "The was one of the best blowjobs I've ever had".
     
  16. thepapasmurph

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    Here's the odd thing about me... I need to hear the feedback, whether it is the moans and noises, or the words.
     
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  17. thepapasmurph

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    This conversation reminds me of Linda Ronstadt's song "poor, poor pitiful me" and my favorite line in the midst of great lyrics were always this one: Yes, he really worked me over good...He was a credit to his gender
     
  18. KDaddy23

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    I found that the feedback was important; I would suck a guy who remained silent until he was about to cum, but it was a bit bothersome not hearing the guy egging me on to suck his dick and otherwise letting me know verbally that what I'm doing to him is working toward getting him to explode in my mouth. As such, I wouldn't say that wanting to hear the feedback is an odd thing about you - it's probably "odd" for all of us to want to hear how we're doing.
     
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  19. LowHangers

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    I would think anyone that's sucking on a guy's cock likes to hear moans of enjoyment or encouraging verbal feedback, I know I certainly do.
     
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