Erections- A double standard

Personally I love seeing a woman's nipples. And if they are erect even better. It was rather chilly during this morning's run. My running partner joked about how her nipples were trying to rip through her sports bra. I joked back that she was almost poking my eyes out and with the chill in the air my penis was NOT going to be ripping through the fabric of my running shorts. We met up again later at a nearby hot spring. The roles were reversed. No erect nipples on her part but while we were talking about travel and food she pointed out that my penis was very erect. I joked that the discussion about food is what did it. More than likely it was the nearly perfect air and water temperature this morning. Who knows. At least we are good enough friends to have a sense of humor about it.

 

I'm on the 'large' side even when flaccid and it looks like a Semi all the time.

 

Shame is the main reason that erections are not that common in nudist settings. I have been a nudist for many many years. I have been to all different types of nudist places. Some being family oriented and some more adults only and more "liberated". Even at the family oriented clubs, after a certain time things get to be more adult oriented. The crazy thing is that even at swingers resorts, "most" men still are shy about being erect unless they are directly engaged in sex. This is strange to me. Why men are so culturally shamed for the state of their penis. As long as you are not being creepy "towards" anyone, who cares if you are erect or not. I am working on liberating my mind from this shame. The more I do so the more my penis does what it will. I don't stroke it or anything, but I allow myself to become aroused. The sun, the wind, looking at my beautiful wife naked and or other beautiful women nearby, even the idea of my erection being seen is both embarrassing but also erotic. It sort of feels like the first time I was naked. I felt vulnerable, yet invigorated. Being a naturist does not mean that I am no longer a sexual being. I agree that nudist setting are not inherently sexual, but that does not mean it has to be purged of all sexuality. Our last vacation at an adults only nudist resort, I allowed myself to become erect while walking around the resort. I must say it felt nice. I think the best feeling was to be able to just be natural without shame. There were a few others that did the same, but only a few.

 

For the most part I feel too much is made of making men suppress and hide an erection, but when erections are creepy are when they are not natural. My wife and I frequent a nude beach near us. We met a guy through the SCNA group. He would complain that most people at the nude beach just wanted to be left alone. We said we are the opposite and would love the company. So, the next time we were at the beach, he came up and sat next to us. That’s was all fine, but then he couldn’t leave his penis alone. At first I thought it was like a tick or something. Every few seconds, even mid sentence while talking, he would flick his wiener. If the guy just happened to get an erection by just enjoying the sun, breeze, beautiful women or whatever, it would have been just fine with me, even sitting right next to us, but the constant tugging and flicking every 20 seconds or so was not just weird, it was creepy. Then after finally getting his penis to respond, he then promptly got up and walked around. Very strange. It is one thing to not mind if I get an erection, but to get one for the sole purpose to walk around and show it off, is just weird…to me.

 

it was almost like when a woman wears something very revealing but then she is constantly messing with her top or pulling down her skirt or whatever. It is distracting and not sexy.

 

When I worked as an art model at a local community college, we were supposed to keep erections under control.