Sexual frustration?

You need to make her orgasm without penetrative sex.

 

As your now having some kind of sex don't just stop at one keep going to the second and third time in one night, mind that's if she lets you, does she orgasm with the sex your having are you having foreplay and can you get her to orgasm then? have you had oral sex? get to find out what she likes best and how she likes it, as these things are what makes you both click, how was sex before marriage then? I do take you had some? you know try before you buy? was it better than your getting now?
Are there lots of things your not doing, sex is no fun if your not getting some kind of feed back, how many positions have you tried? its all these things that lead to a good sex life.

 

She won’t let me go down on her I’ve tried so many times

 

we have sex 3 times a week and each time she doesn’t orgasm or anything she just lays there I’ve even used toys because I thought I was too small for her and still nothing she won’t let me do anything else but penetrate. She doesn’t want me to go down on her
We never had sex b4 marriage
We have tried lots of positions
Missionary
Cowgirl
Reversed cowgirl
Doggy
Modified doggy
Nothing works

 

Have you tried licking her bootyhole (I’m serious when I ask this, not trying to be a smartass)

 

You finally had sex a month ago? You posted this two years ago- it’s really been that long?? Damn....

 

So I just married my soul mate we r still virgins waited until marriage so when we got married she didn’t wanna do any thing her anxiety acted up...
Thread by: Viper17, May 8, 2018, 2 replies, in forum: Oral and Anal Sex

Kind of makes us look silly when you have been married 18 months, you must be a slow starter, its best we have some truth out of you and some apologies for starters.

 

I suspect a heavy religious reason. Or--some people are just asexual. If she won't go to a counselor/psychiatrist-----she's not that interested in YOU.

 

In the case of someone I knew in the past, the second line should have read "He said HE just laid there during sex no enthusiasm no interest in sex.

Being in the 1960's the story made headline news all over the UK.
Just imagine the first night of your honeymoon, discovering that you have just married a transvestite.

I worked for the same company as both of them (part time when I was at college) and I had always assumed that he was a she.
The joys of working in the theater.

 

I'm believing more and more MANY women do NOT have orgasims and just go thru the motions for their spouse/partner...Lots of work for an instant of pleasure...Glad I'm done with it all....

Personally it took getting a hysterectomy and getting rid of tipped uterus in my life...for any pleasure and at that point NO husbands at all...One was enough.

 

So u got ur tipped uterus fixed? My wife was diagnosed with that also I failed to mention it bc I didn’t think it was relevant

 

I'm at a loss for words, amazing

 

People do, and don’t do, things in the name of love. Sometimes with regret when we look back.
Have you had an open conversation without pressure or expectations, only the conversation(s)?
3 months later, refuses therapy, what else?
Why???
Was raped or terrified of having sex?

I don’t look for excuses or pressure but my advice is to try more with talk but if it doesn’t work you divorce.
I know, you love her and you married her, but it almost looks like it was a sexless trap for no worthwhile reason except for her.
Prepare the papers, let her know your intentions and why (without blackmail or pressure), just that both of you deserve a happy relationship; and that YOU are NOT happy living this way. Not telling you to be selfish, on the contrary.
I would not tell her this: you don’t want to end up looking for sex on the side one day (unless she tells you to have your hall pass?)

There are a few people who went through things in life. I am one of them. I won’t tell you stupid shit like some who think with their feet.
Talk to a therapist on your own.

 

Without saying your idea is wrong, rather that she is not in the mindset, I don’t think it will happen.

 

Tried fingering her clitoris?

I realized this thread is 2 years old!!!!
Makes little sense!

 

I completely understand what you mean. A woman has to at least have the slightest curiosity about that to even to try it.

 

Agree lots of women go through the motions to please their partner, but them partners are not very considerate or caring lovers. Definitely not good lovers. Main priority for a man is to make his women fully satisfied, anything else is just a failure on his half. I've always felt awful when I've not fulfilled her needs. Feel on top of the world when she does.