So I just married my soul mate we r still virgins waited until marriage so when we got married she didn’t wanna do any thing her anxiety acted up we waited till the next day and same thing I kissed her all over tried to play with her tits sucked on her nipples she didn’t want them sucked she doesn’t want me to finger her makes her too nervous so last night we where asleep and we woke up in middle of night I was able to finger her for like 2 min if that then she made me stop. Idk what to do I’m ready but not sure she is plz help what can I do to help her out
Have you talked over what you want sexually with each other? Are you using birth control. Maybe your new wife is nervous because she doesn't want to get pregnant immediately. If you can't talk about this easily with your wife, you may need to see a counselor. You should be sharing the joy of sexual intimacy with your "soul mate," not experiencing all these stop signs. You mentioned "her anxiesty." Does she suffer from anxiety attacks? If this is the case and she's taking medication for this, this could be the basis of her reluctance. Or something else you don't even know about may lie under the surface. You sound caring. Broach this with her and get the help you need for both of you! Good luck.
The following sounded like a really upset woman (not your bride) but my wife has a worker that has never allowed her husband to see her in the nude. They do have two kids though. I think if I was her husband, curiosity would have gotten the best of me by the second child. Maybe she is afraid or ashamed of her body? Compliments can go a long way.
