Getting off next to sleeping partner

I do as same as you do. It takes time but I cum so tense.

 

I do this almost every night 6 days a week for sure. I’m forced to touch myself a very specific way in order not to be shaking the bed and the orgasm is very specific and intense. Lots of cum.

She knows just doesnt care, wish she’d join me tho

 

I would think that this is fairly common. I certainly have done it, I know that my Wife has done it as well.

 

masturbating was accepted in our relationship. My wife always knew when I was rubbing one out, joining in was up to her.
So yes, I've been caught jerking off

 

I usually go to sleep around 11:30 at night whereas my wife usually goes to sleep later. A few nights a week she will masturbate so she can fall asleep easier. I am usually too tired to do anything and she can't cum from getting fucked anyway. I may or may not be already asleep and she will whip out her phone, find some hot lesbian porn, then get off.

I am usually awake an hour earlier than I need to be, while she is fast asleep. I will look at some gay porn, read this forum, gay erotica, or my own fantasies of getting sweaty with some hot guy, then rub one out. Sometimes she will wake up while I am jacking off and knows exactly what I am jacking off to. She loves when she wakes uo to the bed moving knowing I am taking care of business. Saturday and/or Sunday mornings I will stop what I am doing and treat her to a good ass fucking since she wants me to wake her up to that, then go back to sleep.

 

I do this all the time when she is asleep I love it and cum on her ass usually and I wish she would wake up lol. I also told her I do this and she told me I should just fuck her while she is asleep. I want to so bad but not sure if I should or not lol

 

I'm a regular at this, I feel bad waking her up all the time. I usually just nut all over myself though.

 

In a 34 year marriage, I must have done it hundreds of times. I developed a technique to masturbate mindfully will the little lady snored away by my side. To see the details of this technique, see my earlier posting, Minimalist Masturbation

 

You are right, having a powerful brine to fantasize and imagine is the main toll to wank off next to an asleep partner. It is more brain stimulation than physical cock impulse. I sink myself in an ocean of fantasy while I stimulate my cock. While I fantasize I forget about what I am doing with my cock, but gradually I get hard without too many physical activities. It takes time but it is an unbelievable climax and pleasures.

 

Oh yeah, I have done it many times and my wife loves it. If she is in the mood, she starts teasing me which makes her horny most of the times and for sure we always have fun together. It's always great to masturbate next and with your partner.

 

If said to fuck her in her sleep, do it! I love when it gets done to me. Especially if he’s trying not to wake me when he is touching me. I have pretended to be asleep many times while this has happened and enjoyed when he would slide it in and wake me up with it

 

I do it quite often. He falls asleep almost instantly when he lays down. Sometimes I just need some fun and will get my phone out and bring myself to cum a few times then I can get to sleep.

 

I have done this alot. I don't know if she has ever noticed or woke up while I'm doing it though. She never said anything or joined in. Being male it does make a mess

 

Did it last night. In fact I just posted about it in the "Masturbating right now" thread. I don't do it often but when I do it's so hot to be sneaky!

 

If I do not have sex with my wife I do it 2 or 3 times a week next to her while she is asleep.

 

Years ago, one night I woke up to the bed gently jiggling. My wife was next to me, in the dark, and I had no idea what was happening. She was not (to my knowledge) a masturbator. I lay there in the dark, now fully awake, wondering what the hell was happening. The last thing on my mind was that the jiggling was caused by my wife jerking herself off! But she had to be!
There was no noise, no slurpy noises that I make when I finger her ****. Just dead silence and a jiggling bed. I lay there pondering my choice of responses. Do I "wake up" and ask if she wants me to fuck that ****? Do I pretend I'm asleep and enjoy her nocturnal diddling while my erection grew? I chose the latter. My erection was now full size and I fingered behind the head which would make me cum in silence.
Eventually, without any noise, no moans, no groans, the jiggling stopped. I assumed that she'd had an orgasm.
I kept a piece of paper towel under my pillow for any night-time jerking so I pretended to stir in my sleep and I grabbed the paper towel. Fingering behind my cock head, the frenulum, I came in minutes.
This happened many times and I never mentioned it. It was a real turn-on to know that she was masturbating her **** just inches from me. How I would have like to have put my head down there and licked her **** to a cum for her.
Eventually, probably due to menopause she stopped doing it. Many years later when I instigated a sex chat, I mentioned that I had felt her masturbating in bed and did she want to talk about it? She replied that she didn't remember doing it!! But we both know that was a lie.

 

Shit, I could practically jump up and down on the bed and not wake her up. I've been known to have a late night or early morning self-session now and then. Well, maybe a little more often than now and then....sometimes I finish it off, sometimes I just edge for a while and roll back over to sleep. Using a little lube and more rubbing it (like the frenulum method) helps keep things quiet vs. just jerking it and risk shaking the bed.....

 

What is "the frenulum method"?

 

Just rubbing on the frenulum, little circles like you would a clit. A bit more discrete, but takes a while.