... that is, pleasuring yourself to climax and seminal emission with the least amount of physical stimulation possible. First, why bother? The answer is simple. Focus and mindfulness. The more you have to employ major muscle groups and concentrate on the tactile sensations, the more you are distracted from the inner sensation of excitement, plateau, orgasm, and emission. The first three of these things do not happen in your penis, they happen in your brain. With less sensation coming from your penis, you will experience these joys in a purer and more intense form. And so why use any penis stimulation at all? Why not just “think off?” Well, have you ever tried it? In my younger days I endeavored desperately to make it happen. I know there are guys who can do it (I’ve seen videos of guys doing no-touch ejaculations on pornhub) but I believe that to do so, you need to be born with an innate ability for it — an ability that I seem to lack. Came close a few times when I was younger, but I was never able to get over the edge by mental activity alone. Now that I’m an old fart with less testosterone, it takes all the concentration I have just to maintain hardness without any tactile input. But I can still reach climax using the two-fingertip method. The diagram below shows where the fingertips go. Use just a light touch and swirl the fingertips in little circles going in opposite directions. At first you might feel a bit frustrated, not feeling any excitement growing whatsoever. But be patient and focus. It will approach you from far away, and slowly, like a shy creature of the forest. Resist the urge to grab and stroke — even one-off strokes. Use only the fingertips, as shown. In the end, you will be rewarded with a climax of unusual intensity and duration.
Why? That’s taking the enjoyment away and making it more of a meditation thing. Isn’t the whole point to feel good and have an orgasm? Why do the mental masturbation when the manual method is easier, faster, and just as rewarding? Just asking...
The whole point is to feel good and have an orgasm. I find that i can feel good longer and have a more stellar and longer lasting orgasm that I experience more deeply using this method. That’s why I thought I’d share it. Might not work for everybody. But I’m sure it will for some. BTW I still often do the quickie, two-minute stroke-and-squirt when that’s what I feel like doing. Having a candy bar as a snack has its place. So does taking your time with a steak dinner.
Is because the easier, faster manual method isn't just as rewarding. It's fun and brings release, but if you have the time, the slow "mental" version is one heckuva ride! When I've done it, the orgasm is INTENSE, and usually I shoot a ton and far. Afterwards, my dick just twitches for what seems like 10 minutes or so. It's awesome! I don't use the two finger touch like above, I try not to touch it at all, but like above I can't get there no hands. I squeeze it every now and then, but when I get near the end, I just apply pressure to the base which pulls the skin tight. And that usually is enough.
I prefer to edge when I masturbate I have very powerful orgasms and I have more sperm when I cum! I am going to masturbate now!
That is a great post, thank you. I do something very similar and will try that exact technique tomorrow. My girlfriend and I are experimenting with masturbation when we are on our own and we share an online diary so we can record and look at our events. This is something that we are both very much into, using as little physical stimulation as possible and letting the force take over as much as we can.
Minimalist masturbation... I must have misunderstood, I thought that just meant using a hand and no toys. Meditation to orgasm, I don't know, I'll have to read through my tantric sex books
