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These are excerpts from an interesting article I read about a female led marriage.

In a wife led marriage, the wife controls sex. Either she allows her husband to indicate an interest in sex, to which she responds positively or negatively, or she reserves the initiation of sex entirely to herself. In either case, the wife is the gate keeper of sex.

So every sexual encounter in a wife led marriage arrives at a point where the wife has been satisfied but the husband has not. This makes sense because there is virtually no risk of a healthy husband failing to orgasm during sexual intercourse whereas there is considerable risk that he might before the wife, thus depriving her and ending the intimacy.

But just as the wife decides when sex occurs, so does she decide how far it proceeds. In particular, she decides whether sex proceeds beyond her first orgasms. As a routine matter, the husband not only has no expectations about when or whether sex will happen but, as well, how far it will proceed when it does. As part of the transformation of the marriage, the wife may be scaling back her husband’s orgasms and, at the same time, increasing her own.

Well, let us suppose that you decide to allow your husband an average of one orgasm a week. At the same time, you might indulge yourself each night. That would result in a ratio of 7:1. These ratios, while interesting, are irrelevant. Once you pass beyond 5:1 there is really no longer any meaningful connection between your orgasms and his, they become entirely different matters: his are a strict matter of discipline, the exact frequency that brings about optimal adoration and obedience, while you can enjoy as many as you wish. In fact, the more sexual intimacy, the better for the marriage.
That might seem incredible but for the fact that as you become ever more proficient in exercising erotic power in your marriage, your husband begins to derive ever greater happiness from your satisfaction. This is so true, at least for me.

She woke up as I was next to her in bed, masturbating like crazy. She said “it’s 12:30 in the morning”. I said “so, I can’t masturbate at 12:30 in the morning”? Then she said “how about if I help you”, and grabbed little willy, and gently moved her hand up and down, as I lay there relaxing. I have to take Viagra to get hard, but not this time. I got hard, and then the pre cum, and then I almost let her go to far. She stopped just in time. Life is good.

Over the past year I’ve become somewhat of an expert on ruined orgasms. My wife has a thing for them, and I don’t know if I will ever get another full blown orgasm.

The ruined orgasms you see on porn sites are not really ruined orgasm, there is no hang time. They stop stimulation when the orgasm begins.

My ruined orgasms start with a tease session. I alternate between licking my wife’s pussy and ass, and then rubbing little willy on her pussy and ass. This can go on for 15 to 20 minutes, with me surfing the edge, but if she says “spoil it for me” I’ll be ready to blow within seconds. I just lay little willy at the top of her pussy and 4 or 5 seconds later, cum dribbles out and runs down her pussy to the crack of her ass, leaving me a nice cream pie to eat.

Usually, with a ruined orgasm, I get a little pleasure, with down time that lasts from a couple of hours to almost a full day, VS 3 or 4 days with a full blown orgasm, (seams like a long time, but maybe it’s because of my age).

Anyway, yesterday and maybe one other time, my hang time went from 3 to 4 seconds to 8 or 9 seconds, and I felt no pleasure, and remained fully horned up. Now that’s the way a ruined orgasm is done the right way. And that cream pie tastes a lot better, when I’m still fully horned up.

I just read an article that said that pee is not sterile. That may, or not be true, but does it really matter, I know it will help an ear ache, or a jelly fish sting, or turn me on to the point of getting wet (not with pee but with pre cum).

I’m a senior citizen who gets a complete check up twice a year…and my wife has given me a pee treat almost every morning for the last 18 months. My doctor tells me that I am in very good health and whatever I am doing, just keep doing it. I guess I will follow doctor’s orders.

If you would ask those submissive men, like myself, who are teased and denied orgasms on a regular basis, “would you rather have a wonderful orgasm or would you rather be denied”? Most, if honest with themselves, would rather be denied their orgasm and remain horny on on the edge.

I know I love living my life on the edge. I would willingly give up that few seconds of extreme pleasure for weeks and months of the constant frustration of being horny and on the edge. My wife has no problem making me go months without a full blown orgasm, but she does like to see me cum, so her thing is to let me have a ruined orgasm every week or so. She doesn’t notice any down time on my part. She likes to keep me horny a craving her pussy, all the time.

The only time I miss my orgasms, is when, during a tease session, she has me hanging off the edge by my finger tips. But after she lets me cool down, it feels like I had an orgasm, only better, because I’m still horny.