you're not gay, but your masturbation habbits are centered around cock

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  1. topper

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    Are your masturbation habits centered around gay or bi activities, like eating your own cum, dildo play and gay/bi fantasies? Is it just a change of pace or are you developing desires to possibly try it?
     
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  2. maturemale3346

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    Can't speak for everyone, but I started masturbating to gay pics years ago. Then vids. Took me a while to accept that it turned me on. Always liked anal pleasure, so I used my wife's dildo and started fantasizing. It finally led to trying oral, and that felt so natural. I've been into sex with men since
     
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  3. bigredinmass

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    Penis is the true star in porn for me.
     
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  4. LowHangers

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    All the porn I've every jerked off to were blow job related. I love watching a good cock sucker. However, over time I found myself fantasizing of not just being the one getting a blow job while stroking myself, but also fantasizing it was me sucking the cock and I was getting harder faster and shooting more powerful loads. Today, watching a woman sucking a guy off doesn't get me near as excited as watching a guy suck another guy off.
     
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  5. Sr.bye

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    I'm starting to masturbate watching gay porn and the truth is I like it but I take the opportunity to see if someone can advise me what to see to enter the bisexual world
     
  6. maturemale3346

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    You need to meet a man you can trust - and hopefully he has a nice body
     
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    More and more I'd like to try it.
     
  8. Harry Smith

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    I love TS porn particularly with a dom TS.A BDSM session with forced oral and sex is so horny
     
  9. Txguy1985

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    Most of my masturbation/fantasy/porn viewing is gay. I think it’s because it’s what I can’t have. My wife, for the most part, gives up the pussy when I ask. So I have no desire for other pussy. But cock, anal, cumming etc I don’t ever get. Maybe I’m lying to myself haha either way it works.. for now
     
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  10. maturemale3346

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    It was the same here for a while. But when things slowed down to a crawl a few years go - well, maybe 5 -6 years now - I got brave and went over the line. No interest in chasing different pussy, so guys were an option. Worked out well after a bit of a crazy start
     
  11. topper

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    Im thankful to my wife for giving me the chance and encouragement to go in the bi direction. Being in our 70s, who gives a shit anymore? She was finished with sex years ago . My choice was to go with other women,which she did not approve of and would probably kill me, or do a little bi experimentation, which she highly encouraged. Getting a good blowjob didn't sound so bad either. The second time , she was present. Still ,one of the great moments in our lives.
     
  12. maturemale3346

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    You are a lucky man!
     
  13. amb5734

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    I watch both straight and gay porn and both get me hot. I would love to hookup with a hot younger woman but being an older guy I know it's just not going to happen. For some reason guys seem to be attracted to me so I just go with it and have fun.
     
  14. Txguy1985

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    im getting closer to that line every day. I wouldn’t be surprised if it happens sometime in the next 6 months. Unless something changes in the bedroom at home I’ll find something else
     
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    Go see the real thing...............
     
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  16. BoyToy69

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    I love anal play, as much or more than my cock. So I watch a lot of gay solo play with toys. Always learning new things to try. I like cleaner with less hair, so lots of twink videos and BJ's. My other majority is fisting vids. The intensity and thoughts make me very hard and wet, even though I've never experienced it.
     
  17. Sexualfunone

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    Makes since to me. When chatting online I rather chat mostly about sucking cock and bi thoughts. I have been asked if I'm guy that I talk about that more than pussy. Well me and wife are swingers and we also fuck each other daily and still not enough. Been with over 100 women. So I am same. Talking about something new that's rare to get is much more exciting at this point. I have lived out just about any fantasies I had with women after being in swinger lifestyle since an early teen. Just wish we could meet a steady cpl with guy that atleast will let a guy suck him off with the girls. My wife's biggest turn on are trans and gay porn. So loves me to suck cock.

     
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  18. slayer3737

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    Almost all of my fantasies and porn enjoyment has been gay since 1992 when my first girlfriend broke my heart in breaking up with me. Eventually those desires led me out to look for the real thing, and for the first 21 years it was only in anonymous sex venues like bathhouses, gay sex clubs, arcades, theatres, gay bars, gay orgies, etc.: there are a lot of these venues in the many big cities that I have lived in or visited. I also played with a lot of vibrators and dildos, not only sucking and learning to deepthroat them before I ventured out for the real thing soon after, but also using them in my ass for decades, always imagining it was a real guy fucking me.

    But despite masturbating to countless hours watching gay anal porn, reading and writing about gay anal sex, it took me 21 years before I actually had anal desires with a real naked guy. But rimming and fucking that first guy really touched something deep within me, the gay part of me, and brought it closer to the surface, and allowed me to accept it, and love it, and be very proud of it. Immediately I quit all anonymous encounters and have just been getting together with other guys in each other's homes, for passionate oral and anal sex and greater connection. I even dated a guy for a while.

    My ass is still virgin except with my dildos, but now that I'm broken up from my second girlfriend, I'm very determined to change that. I never cheated on her, except with gay porn and chatting with guys online during the several periods we were on a break. But she loved to peg me with a strap-on dildo, though I always wished that it was a real guy who was fucking my ass when she did it.

    So that's the path I took from those early gay desires and looking at gay magazines, and having the greatest masturbatory sessions of my life. I continued to have out of this world masturbatory sessions for decades to gay porn, but now it's just less wild masturbation while reading and writing about gay stuff like in this forum. I had to quit official porn because I developed a serious addiction to it. Keep it well under 20 hours a week, guys, if you can. I was edging my cock for 50 hours a week. Way too much desire like that really fucks with you!
     
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  19. Oral_Jim

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    I like all types of porn except for pain, blood, scat, snuff, underage, beastiality and lesbian (there is probably more that I can't think of right now). I say lesbian because there is no cock to look at. My favorite is watching closeups of a man getting his dick sucked. mmmmmm!!!!!

    Exhibitionist men are also a treat.
     
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  20. dkcurious

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    The last time i did a Bi play inspired masturbation was with a thrusting, vibrating dildo. i was watching a Ts/F/M video. I like to do prostate play because if i don't it can take quite awhile for me to cum. I thought it was hot watching the chick and dude take turns giving blowjobs to the TS then a ton else after. I am very heavily focused on oral giving/recieving so it was exciting to watch. It turned me on and I started to jack off like 3-5 minutes after dildo insertion. he reason I love prostate play is it never takes me long to cum and like maybe 12-15 minutes into play I busted. It felt so good to cum in a reasonable amount of time. And I really liked how dirty and slutty I felt after I did it.
     
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