pulling out is completely ineffective, hope you know that. And the pills free, its called planned parenthood, or Kaiser.
Not exactly pulling out is effective just not reliable hence why I mentioned it, and I was talking about birth control. Had no I idea you could just pick some up at PP. Thought you have to go to a doctor first. Btw PP gives out free condoms too, just make sure you don't use the ones they staple to programs/pamphlets.
It's a necessity, can't afford to hate them too much, but it's nowhere near as pleasurable as skin on skin. But you know it can be fun, the process of bringing one with you in your pocket, going shopping for the ones you like, taking it out before you have sex, the whole process of it is good, it's like the prep for sex, it's just the actual having sex with it on that sucks. Actually they really fucking bug me, they're not made with the non-circumcised man in mind.
oh yes, and as for the price thing..well i get the depo provera shot its $50 a dose and lasts 3 months. So if you are like me, and have a steady partner that you trust enough to skip the condoms..its likely that the shot would save you a lot of money and pill hassle.
Condoms definitely detract from the experience, but more for the guy sliding his cock in than for the person receiving. I definitely prefer women, but I love getting anal penetration, so I've had a few guys. I know that when I'm sliding into a woman, it's not nearly as good with a condom, but when a guy is sliding into me, the condom is not as much of an issue. I do prefer to be penetrated without a condom because I love the idea of a man cumming in me, but I won't do that with someone I don't know.
Ick. I hate condoms with a passion! They're just no fun. Although, it does still feel pretty good. Hell, as long as I get laid, I don't really care if there is a condom involved or not. Still hate them tho...
Lot's of candid responses here--I am surprised there are as many people against them as this. Even in a committed relationship, you can still get pregnant, and there are still diseases like herpes than can creep up and are difficult to test for. Probably best to use condoms--especially if you are younger and less experienced. Being on the pill is good as well, just as a back up. Neither are 100% effective.
Condoms are a great tool for preventing pregnancy and STIs, but when it comes to sensation... Let me put it this way. I wore one when I lost my virginity and I lasted about 2.5 hours. Now my girlfriend is on the pill, so we don't use one, and I last 20 minutes.
I understand the purpose of the condom (Duh) but the people that make them need to take into consideration the sensation that dies when putting one on. My feeling dies and have been unable to release on frequent occasions. For that purpose if any guy is like me in that aspect ya hate them with the passion that's supposed to be had with skin on skin that you're missing out on. Which depending on that missed out feeling can be quite a lot!
I'm one of the few who don't mind them. I love the delay they give me. Granted it only a couple more minutes. I must have some sort of PE. I hope to be able to have sex longer then 30 minutes someday.... My girlfriend just wants to orgasm instantly. She always holds off until I'm ready but it would be nice for her to orgasm more then once without me having to pull out for a few minutes until she was comfortable with me thrusting again. Says it hurts her if I keep thrusting after her orgasm if we don't take a minute or two break. Sucky. Any other girls like this? Or am I just too thick?
always wrap it before u attack it always use a condom only exception was my x bf of 2 years other than dat always gotta use a condom
I don't like condoms. Sure in certain situations they're necessary, but that still doesn't make me enjoy them.
I/we never use them. Probably a good idea for a young person who has a large number of other single partners. I am not a doctor and I don't play one, but my gut feeling is that their primary benefit is decreasing the risk of pregnancy and to a smaller extent, other health reasons.